Aight ya'll, I've been away from the board for a minute and I've come back with a problem. Ok here it goes, my bf right he's umm... on "lock down" you get what I'm sayin'? Aight he's been in this "place" since Thanksgiving of 2004. He said that he wouldn't hold ne back from seeing other people. So I met this really good guy. I didn't tell him about my bf until like 2 months after we started talking. Then he was all bent out of shape that I lyed not really looking at the fact that me and my bf are on a break. My and the guy chill, you kno have a good time and enjoy each other company. Yesterday he sent me a text on my cell saying, " I think that I'm faling for you". This made my day because I feel the same way. So we get on the phone last night, and I think that it's going to be a confession of our love for one another right But No! He tells me that we shouldn't talk anymore because all of a sudden he grew a conscious! He didn't wanna be a part of me cheating. He said that I must love my bf to stick it out with him through his " ordeal". When I said that I didn't, because I don't, he told me I was lying. He told me that there had to be a reason for my staying. I told him that because no one esle would and that I wasn't gonna leave him high and dry with no one by his side.
Now, I've said all of this to say, was I wrong for lying? Depite the fact that my bf and I are on a break? Was it really love? He made me feel like I was the only person in the world that mattered. I felt complete, a lil Jerry. lol But no on a serious note, should I leave it and say if it was meant to be it will? Or press my luck and call? HELP ME OUT!!!!!!!
i didn't really read this sh!t...i stopped when you said your boyfriend was in jail...
dump his **** and go to the dude that has some sense in his head...there's nothing worst than seeing a chick with an assclown who's not mature ebough and too gangsta to keep his dumb animal acting **** out of jail....
animal 8-) (nessa)
umm, whoa. ok. obviously you are feeling something for the dude in jail because you are still "with" him, but only you know that. i would say, depending on how long he will be in there, that you should call the other dude back. I mean, the guy in jail cant expect you to wait on him. if you two are meant to be, it will be. until then, i think you should have a good time. and what exactly did you lie about???
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nope. he shouldnt accuse you of lying like that. when you call you should get his **** straight and then ask him out...
i say, " girl call that man back and apologize! " well how long is the guy in jail supposed to be there? you can still be by his side and not be with him. be by his side as his friend. dont abandon him completly cause if you are the only one who is there for him them he really needs u. but here u are wit this man that wants to be wit u and wants to have a relationship wit u and u are stuck. FOLLOW YOUR HEART. if your heart is telling u - man i love this man ( the one in jail) and i will do anything to be wit him. then leave ol dude alone and stand by yo man. but if your heart is pushing you towards this new love then go to him. I can tell already that you want to be with this new guy more because it's getting to you. You care about him and his feelings. Dont stay with the dude in jail because you feel sorry for him or you have pity. You might be missing out of the love of you life.
P.S - have you seen "Diary of a Mad Black Woman"? remember what happened at the end - GIRL GO GET YO MAN!
