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Ok I'm really sad right now... Posted on 04-19-2005

IgnoranceIsBliss
Dallas, TX
Last summer, a friend and I were walking in Deep Ellum, which is a area with a strip of clubs in Downtown Dallas. This guy and his friend was trying to holler and my friend is the type to ignore guys but I'm more of the type to stop and say hello, especially if the guy is cute. We eventually exchanged numbers and the guy and I talked that whole summer. My womanly instinct was telling me not to fall into deep with this guy because for one he's still gonna be in Dallas and I'm gonna be back & forth to Virginia. This guy was bad(in a good way) though! He was going to school, worked, he looks like Andre3000, he's a Que, and has a lot of southern charm. So I was falling for this dude but we never go the oppritunity to get things poppin cause like I said, I was going to be back in forth in Dallas. Anyways, I call him today after months to see how he was doing and that womanly instinct kicked in. I asked him if he was with someone and he told me he was. I was like . He said they had been dating but they made it official two weeks ago. I feel like I lost something that could have been so good to me. But hopefully fate will bring us back together. Ladies do ya feel me??? Have you lost love because of college?? On the upside, he wanted to see me when I get back in a week in a half.
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Kinkee replied on 04-19-2005 12:54AM [Reply]
There was a guy in high school that I thought we could have something. But now when I think of him. I don't think it could ever work out between us because he violated my trust when we were involved. We were friends afterwards. I just haven't seen him in years. Speaking of which he has a birthday coming up.
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Princess LaRonda replied on 04-19-2005 12:55AM [Reply]
good luck girl if it was meant to be....its gonna be....... and being that he wants to see you when he gets back it seems as if his interest is equal to yours...... MY OP
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La replied on 04-19-2005 04:15PM [Reply]
That ****...maybe him and his girl will break up soon and then yall can be together over the summer ( damn thats so evil of me...hehehe ). Anyways...no I I never been in this situation, but Im the type of female that doesnt get attached to guys easy anyway...especially if I know we will hardly see each other...but hey if yall dont end up being together, that just leaves room for someone else to sweep u off ur feet. :grin:
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IgnoranceIsBliss from Dallas, TX replied on 04-19-2005 04:45PM [Reply]

Lady_ J wrote:
but Im the type of female that doesnt get attached to guys easy anyway...
Girl me too. I will like a guy who is fine as hell but then lose interest cause I get bored easily. But this was honestly the first guy that I ever felt this way about, so I knew it had to be something special. I was also telling myself, because of my womanly instinct, not to get attached to him but it was just something I couldn't help.
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Ludacrises replied on 04-27-2005 02:24AM [Reply]
hehe...and i gotta broom :grin:
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Thoroughly_Confused replied on 04-27-2005 01:50PM [Reply]
maybe i'm trife, but megan, you don't know the girl, so that means y'all aren't friends. with all that sid you don't have any obligations to her
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Goldy_1914 from Houston, TX replied on 04-27-2005 02:44PM [Reply]

Hey boo, look here love is just a game and things like that happen. Just take it and charge it. Us men have been there too..
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Blutifully Human replied on 04-30-2005 07:08AM [Reply]
yes lawd...college screws u up when it comes to love. Especially if you're away for college. And in my case, i'm all the way across the darn country. Every dude that i've had a "thing" with thus far (cuz i wouldn't call it relationships) has been long distance. Whoever said you find your husband in college was smokin some serious crack rocks :x btw Megan, don't fall for that "i wanna see u when u come back home" ish. If he's with a girl, just charge it to the game. Cuz he's gonna still try to kick it with u at the same time knowin good and well he's attracted to u, and if u don't look out you're gonna end up being the "other woman". You're way too good for that sistah. Would you want your man kickin it with a female that he once tried to get with (and probably STILL wants to get with)? If it's meant to be, you'll have him in time.
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Imaginelyfe06 replied on 04-30-2005 04:18PM [Reply]
where's my halo? wrote:
yes lawd...college screws u up when it comes to love. Especially if you're away for college. And in my case, i'm all the way across the darn country. Every dude that i've had a "thing" with thus far (cuz i wouldn't call it relationships) has been long distance. Whoever said you find your husband in college was smokin some serious crack rocks :x btw Megan, don't fall for that "i wanna see u when u come back home" ish. If he's with a girl, just charge it to the game. Cuz he's gonna still try to kick it with u at the same time knowin good and well he's attracted to u, and if u don't look out you're gonna end up being the "other woman". You're way too good for that sistah. Would you want your man kickin it with a female that he once tried to get with (and probably STILL wants to get with)? If it's meant to be, you'll have him in time.
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