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How Much Time Is Too Much Time Posted on 04-30-2005
DCHoney_0629

Well...I have been having this issue with my boyfriend for a while about him spending more time with his friends than me. He goes out and chill during the day with them, he comes home for 2 hours and goes and chills again in the night. He doesn't see it though and just says that I'm jealous of his friends. Ladies, do you think that it is okay if your man spends more time with his friends than you even if he's known them longer??? Any other input is okay.
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Thoroughly_Confused replied on 04-30-2005 12:26AM [Reply]
well me personally i don't like people to be around me too much, so for the most part it probably wouldn't bother me, but all u have to do is just manipulate the situation. plan things together and go out. that way u actually get to spend time wiht him and not just sit around.
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Buttascotch replied on 04-30-2005 12:30AM [Reply]
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replied on 04-30-2005 12:35AM [Reply]
Buttascotch530 wrote:
H-TOWN_NSU_CHICK wrote:
well me personally i don't like people to be around me too much, so for the most part it probably wouldn't bother me, but all u have to do is just manipulate the situation. plan things together and go out. that way u actually get to spend time wiht him and not just sit around.
^^^ yeah, that's the same w/ me. i need my space. just couldnt handle being w/ bro' man e-v-e-r-y s-i-n-g-l-e day for several hours, just me and him. id b annoyed............
I feel that, but this man and I spend like 2-3hours( like 12-3am) together a day and we live together. I'm not askin to stay in the house. I wanna go out and even try plannin stuff for us to do, but he always has other things planned with his friends before I can even say anything about it. Before y'all start sayin it, no he isn't cheating. he is just with them guys all the damn time.
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Thoroughly_Confused replied on 04-30-2005 12:44AM [Reply]
well i don't know what to say. the next time he try and walk out the house, step in front of him w/ some Vicki on...hell i don't know.
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IgnoranceIsBliss from Dallas, TX replied on 04-30-2005 12:53AM [Reply]

Yall are young. Let him get all of that out of his system so if yall stay together he'll have that "been there, done that" mentality in the end. A lot of committed men wile out cause they didn't get to flourish.
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replied on 04-30-2005 03:23AM [Reply]
HmMm ii think I would let him go and Chill out with his friends because its only fair... I dont think I would have a problem with it as long as he wouldnt have a problem with me Chillin with my gurl friends ... As long as he is not trying to talk to someone else its koo you shouldnt worry but if he has a Wild past or something like that and you dont trust him then maybe you dont need to be with him ? .... :-)
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replied on 04-30-2005 03:41AM [Reply]
DL?
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Hahaha replied on 04-30-2005 10:29AM [Reply]
JoshDill wrote:
DL?
cosigns....that's what i'm thinking... :???: 8-) (eve)
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replied on 04-30-2005 10:37AM [Reply]
DCHoney_0629 wrote:
Well...I have been having this issue with my boyfriend for a while about him spending more time with his friends than me. He goes out and chill during the day with them, he comes home for 2 hours and goes and chills again in the night. He doesn't see it though and just says that I'm jealous of his friends. Ladies, do you think that it is okay if your man spends more time with his friends than you even if he's known them longer??? Any other input is okay.
I can't give you my advice until I know how old you are....
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