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I lost another good friend (is it my fault?) Posted on 05-17-2005
chancebychanel
New Haven, CT
Okay. well nobody died or anything but I have a feeling me and my old boy bestfriend wont be as close as we used to be because recently he developed a crush on me and that makes me extremely uncomfortable. But I will admit. I AM A HUGE FLIRT. I flirt so much I dont know when Im doing it and I dont mean any harm. I lost 3 guys best friends for the exact same reason, they caught feelings. But thats just how I am. Am I to blame? I hope i didnt give any mixed feelings because I dont want anything but to be friends with him. HOW DO I STOP FLIRTING?
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Hahaha replied on 05-17-2005 01:55PM [Reply]
yeah it is your fault....wait was he your BF or friend? smh...ladies, there's nothing worst than a chick who's a flirt...smh...reminds me of this chick back at the old high school...smh she let me touch one her **** at the end of the day...yup was seeing somebody...smh...8-)
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CrunkMonkey85 from Atlanta, GA replied on 05-17-2005 02:41PM [Reply]

chancebychanel wrote:
Okay. well nobody died or anything but I have a feeling me and my old boy bestfriend wont be as close as we used to be because recently he developed a crush on me and that makes me extremely uncomfortable. But I will admit. I AM A HUGE FLIRT. I flirt so much I dont know when Im doing it and I dont mean any harm. I lost 3 guys best friends for the exact same reason, they caught feelings. But thats just how I am. Am I to blame? I hope i didnt give any mixed feelings because I dont want anything but to be friends with him. HOW DO I STOP FLIRTING?
that's so funny... i just said that:
CrunkMonkey07 wrote:
if a dude is just a friend, don't lead him on... maybe i'm just dumb, but i swear some girls be flirting with me when clearly, clearly, clearly we're "just friends."
someone please help this woman stop flirting. lol @ nick touching ****
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IgnoranceIsBliss from Dallas, TX replied on 05-17-2005 02:45PM [Reply]

Yeah, it's your fault. But just explain to them what the situation was.
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ClassyWisdom08 replied on 05-17-2005 02:46PM [Reply]
You should just be more aware of yourself. Maybe, then you'll be able to keep it under control.
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saxxxmepoetically from akron, OH replied on 05-17-2005 03:01PM [Reply]

yeah its your fault, cause 9 out of 10 times, the guy probably liked you in the first place, and decided that it would be best that yall be cool, for a while before he revealed how he felt about you. and being a big **** flirt myself, i know that it can be dangerous even when you think that everyone is on the same page. just chill out and make sure that they KNOW what the deal is from jump
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replied on 05-17-2005 05:03PM [Reply]
like everyone already said, it is your fault tana. i have the same problem sometimes but i've learned to control myself a little bit. but if you do it naturally, maybe you should start making it obvious that you are just playing around. ::shrugs:: i dont know what else to say.
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Wisdom_Tree replied on 05-17-2005 07:12PM [Reply]
I was trying to figure out if you meant whether or not you flirt with your friend or with other people. If you mean with your friend, then you cant really expect to stick out your pretty little tushie in front of someone and be upset when they grab it... It all boils down to treating a friend like a friend then anyone else... If you know youre attractive and have issues like that with guys, you have to draw clear cut lines in the sand. None of that "Wellll...." cuz you can flirt with other people. Feelings make any relationship complicated, and what make friendships work is that you dont have to deal so much with feelings. Its why friends with benefits only works if two people REALLY dont care what the other person thinks. *goes back to doin stuff*
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chancebychanel from New Haven, CT replied on 05-17-2005 09:21PM [Reply]
Okay I plead the fifth. OKAY SO IT IS MY FAULT. I TOLD HIM SORRY IF I LEAD HIM TO BELIEVE THAT I WANTED ANYTHING ELSE BUT A FRIENDSHIP AND THAT I WOULD FEEL TOO AWKWARD TO TAKE IT TOO THAT LEVEL AND I JUST DONT LOOK AT HIM LIKE THAT. HE SAID THATS COOL.I HOPE TOMORROW WHEN I SEE HIM HE'S NOT UNCOMFORTABLE MY NEW AFFIRMATION: I WILL BE MORE CONSCIENTIOUS IF I THINK IM FLIRTING. I WILL NOT FLIRT WITH FRIENDS I MUST I MUST I MUST INCREASE MY BUST(LOL)
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replied on 05-17-2005 10:29PM [Reply]
chancebychanel wrote:
MY NEW AFFIRMATION: I WILL BE MORE CONSCIENTIOUS IF I THINK IM FLIRTING. I WILL NOT FLIRT WITH FRIENDS I MUST I MUST I MUST INCREASE MY BUST(LOL)
Wattup Chantel But uh, what exactly do you mean by "Increase your bust?"?
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