I lost another good friend (is it my fault?)

yeah its your fault, cause 9 out of 10 times, the guy probably liked you in the first place, and decided that it would be best that yall be cool, for a while before he revealed how he felt about you. and being a big **** flirt myself, i know that it can be dangerous even when you think that everyone is on the same page. just chill out and make sure that they KNOW what the deal is from jump

like everyone already said, it is your fault tana. i have the same problem sometimes but i've learned to control myself a little bit. but if you do it naturally, maybe you should start making it obvious that you are just playing around. ::shrugs:: i dont know what else to say.

I was trying to figure out if you meant whether or not you flirt with your friend or with other people. If you mean with your friend, then you cant really expect to stick out your pretty little tushie in front of someone and be upset when they grab it... It all boils down to treating a friend like a friend then anyone else... If you know youre attractive and have issues like that with guys, you have to draw clear cut lines in the sand. None of that "Wellll...." cuz you can flirt with other people. Feelings make any relationship complicated, and what make friendships work is that you dont have to deal so much with feelings. Its why friends with benefits only works if two people REALLY dont care what the other person thinks. *goes back to doin stuff*

Okay I plead the fifth. OKAY SO IT IS MY FAULT. I TOLD HIM SORRY IF I LEAD HIM TO BELIEVE THAT I WANTED ANYTHING ELSE BUT A FRIENDSHIP AND THAT I WOULD FEEL TOO AWKWARD TO TAKE IT TOO THAT LEVEL AND I JUST DONT LOOK AT HIM LIKE THAT. HE SAID THATS COOL.I HOPE TOMORROW WHEN I SEE HIM HE'S NOT UNCOMFORTABLE MY NEW AFFIRMATION: I WILL BE MORE CONSCIENTIOUS IF I THINK IM FLIRTING. I WILL NOT FLIRT WITH FRIENDS I MUST I MUST I MUST INCREASE MY BUST(LOL)