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SPINOFF: Drop a word for us brothas.... Posted on 05-19-2005
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ok........ MEN STOP trying to figure out the female race...as i've stated before...we are some COMPLEX creatures...we are forever changing...just deal with it Please stop making your mind up about women based on ONE or even a FEW...not every one is perfect...but hey if some female or femaleS have broken your heart one time too many...please dont condemn the rest of us ....(that goes for ladies too) You guys dont ALWAYS have to take care of things (fiscally)...there is nothing wrong with a female who has money and who WANTS to take care of business occasionaly...just dont get TOO used to it...lol If you would like to engage in a successful conversation with a female then at least acknowledge the fact that her eyes are NOT in her chest...after a while it feels uncomfortable for us (and yes i know some males are gonna say what if she puts them out there...im bound to look...yeah i kno...and im guilty of that...lol check my avatar...but be a gentleman lol...and some of us will learn how to keep the girls under wraps lol) Despite whether or not you believe in us using birth control (the pill mainly or the shot or whatever) its really not up for you to have much say...it is our bodies...we do what we can... also...Keep an open mind fellas...people nowadays are so stuck on preferences and what not...but the truth is...something REAL special may not always come in the perfect package... ...fellas if you know she been cheatin on you...and if you know she's a hoe/slut blah blah blah...then stop f*ckin her... ...come back later with more
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IgnoranceIsBliss replied on 05-19-2005 11:33PM [Reply]
If you have any inkling that you are attracted to men, it's ok...tell us. We'll be mad at first, but, we'll get over it. A phone call means a lot to us women, even the ones who's not really phone talkers like myself. But if calls stop, we start to wonder, especially if we used to talk everyday. If you busy and you know damn well you ain't called in about a couple of days, just call and say wassup. We ain't gotta talk for hours and abuse the hell out of Sprint to Sprint, just call and say "hello, I'm thinking about you, bye". That's it. HONESTY is key!!!!!!! If you not feeling a girl no more, just tell her...don't see other women behind her back or avoid her. It's not worth it. Just always remember these words of advice. Whatever you choose to do negatively in a relationship reflects on you and not your mate. If you choose to cheat, somethings wrong with you, not her. If you choose to lie about little things, somethings wrong with you. Just be honest with a girl and even leave her. Yeah, it's gonna hurt her but she'll get over it and you even made her into a stronger, smarter woman. Don't do a woman wrong and allow her to continue to be in that relationship. You're just breaking her down, especially when she finds out or knows she's being treated this way, but leaving her, knowing you ain't doing her right, we'll build her up. Think about how you would feel if your mother was in the situations you put your woman through.
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replied on 05-20-2005 04:52PM [Reply]
MeganJerai wrote:
If you have any inkling that you are attracted to men, it's ok...tell us. We'll be mad at first, but, we'll get over it. A phone call means a lot to us women, even the ones who's not really phone talkers like myself. But if calls stop, we start to wonder, especially if we used to talk everyday. If you busy and you know damn well you ain't called in about a couple of days, just call and say wassup. We ain't gotta talk for hours and abuse the hell out of Sprint to Sprint, just call and say "hello, I'm thinking about you, bye". That's it. HONESTY is key!!!!!!! If you not feeling a girl no more, just tell her...don't see other women behind her back or avoid her. It's not worth it. Just always remember these words of advice. Whatever you choose to do negatively in a relationship reflects on you and not your mate. If you choose to cheat, somethings wrong with you, not her. If you choose to lie about little things, somethings wrong with you. Just be honest with a girl and even leave her. Yeah, it's gonna hurt her but she'll get over it and you even made her into a stronger, smarter woman. Don't do a woman wrong and allow her to continue to be in that relationship. You're just breaking her down, especially when she finds out or knows she's being treated this way, but leaving her, knowing you ain't doing her right, we'll build her up. Think about how you would feel if your mother was in the situations you put your woman through.
That sentence says it all.
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Thoroughly_Confused replied on 05-20-2005 04:53PM [Reply]
MeganJerai wrote:
A phone call means a lot to us women, even the ones who's not really phone talkers like myself. But if calls stop, we start to wonder, especially if we used to talk everyday. If you busy and you know damn well you ain't called in about a couple of days, just call and say wassup. We ain't gotta talk for hours and abuse the hell out of Sprint to Sprint, just call and say "hello, I'm thinking about you, bye". That's it.
I couldn't have said it any better myself. Maybe this one is foor me. Just because I called you doesn't mean that I am that interested I have a heavy conscience, so when I say that I am a virgin and that I have never been in a relationship don't come back w/ "Well I'm going to change that." That is not cute. Alot of it may be by circumstance, but don't rule out choice either. Don't come on too strong. Just becasue you get that call doesn't mean you have it in the bag.
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Buttascotch replied on 05-21-2005 02:58AM [Reply]
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replied on 05-22-2005 05:56AM [Reply]
... keep it simple andtry to remember the little things because it shows you were at least "trying" to pay attention :-) .. ooh yeah and as Megan said a PHONE CALL means ALOT ! :-)
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*NiseyInWonderland* replied on 05-22-2005 01:12PM [Reply]
MeganJerai wrote:
A phone call means a lot to us women, even the ones who's not really phone talkers like myself. But if calls stop, we start to wonder, especially if we used to talk everyday. If you busy and you know damn well you ain't called in about a couple of days, just call and say wassup. We ain't gotta talk for hours and abuse the hell out of Sprint to Sprint, just call and say "hello, I'm thinking about you, bye". That's it.
that is so tru. Ladies, do u think Im being to hard on my bf by asking him to call me once a day while he's away just to say "hi I love u" and thats it?
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replied on 08-12-2005 11:21PM [Reply]
Even though women complain, they LOVE black men. just LOVE them If you roll with a group of friends, and you start to feel a girl, and you are the only ONE in your group of friends that is interested in having a relationship....don't listen to their "be a playa" advice. sometimes friends can really mess u up with a girl you really like my only advice in every situation for every male: Listen to YOUR heart and no one else's mouth
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chrisfrmatl from Conyers, GA replied on 08-13-2005 02:44AM [Reply]

Let me drop one for us brothas... STOP BELIEVING WHAT THESE RAPPERS ARE SAYING!!! Use proper english in business and educational settings. Pull your pants up and be a man. And respect our women and respect their bodies and their minds...
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DSTined replied on 08-13-2005 01:21PM [Reply]
Be respectful in all things you do. Whether its the way you approach a female or when you take her out. It will help you a lot more if you went up to a female and said, "Hello, I just wanted to tell you that you are very attractive and I'm feeling you," rather than, "damn shawty got a fat ____" or walking by and do the turn around and walk backwards thing (I wanna tell them, "well hell let's dance" lol. Be yourself all of the time. I hate when a guy is one way around me and we get around people and he feels like he has to fit into a mold. I understand that you may feel different around me, but don't flip like Dr. Jekell (sp ) and Mr. Hyde. Finally, if you get turned down its okay. Don't proceed to cuss the girl out and down her. Remember, it makes you seem like a bigger fool to tell her she's not that cute anyway when you just tried to get with her 10 seconds earlier.
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