Home > Forums > Interest Groups > For The Ladies
Edit Settings  |  Search Forums
IM UNNAPROACHABLE. Posted on 05-28-2005
chancebychanel
New Haven, CT
Hey. it's me again. Now I was at Six Flags today and I came to the conclusion that Im just freakin un aproachable and I dont want to be. Now not to toot my own horn but Im pretty and stuff but not a lot of guys try to talk to me. When somebody do they be like they thought I was gonna be mean or try to play them. I cant help it I have a mean face. I could be havin a perfect day and somebody be like "why dont u try to smile" and I dont even be mad. My mother has a mean face too and is nice. This is crazy Im sick of being single but no one comes up to me (or at least no one I want to) Anybody else have this problem. How do u have a friendly face?
  [Reply]
Page 1 of 4 1234  >  Last
laidbackfella from Orangeburg, SC replied on 05-28-2005 11:01PM [Reply]

Would you really want a man that was intimidated by your facial expression and he's not even talking to you? If he doesn't think he can bring a smile to your face it's probably best that he stays wherever he is. What would happen when he sees his own shadow?
  [Report Abuse] [Quote]
Haelo from Upper Marlboro, MD replied on 05-29-2005 12:15AM [Reply]

alot of fellas dont like to get put on the spot in front of their boys....so if they dont think they can get u, they wont try.....its a matter of the guys self confidence....they believe that u r in essence to good for them....personally, I would take it as a compliment.... I'm out...
  [Report Abuse] [Quote]
replied on 05-29-2005 02:22AM [Reply]
I have a mean face most of the time too. It's just a natural thing. I learned that it's cool to smile sometimes tho. A smile is a lot more welcomin than a straight serious face. A lot of false assumptions can rise from facial expressions, so try letting your outward expression correspond with how you feeling at the time. Otherwise, don't plan on anybody coming up to you unless they really wanna holla, which is actually a good thing if someone is willing enough to talk to a mean lookin female.
  [Edit] [Delete] [Report Abuse] [Quote]
Enigma2k8 replied on 05-29-2005 02:50AM [Reply]
LeDbYFIRE wrote:
I have a mean face most of the time too. It's just a natural thing. I learned that it's cool to smile sometimes tho. A smile is a lot more welcomin than a straight serious face. A lot of false assumptions can rise from facial expressions, so try letting your outward expression correspond with how you feeling at the time. Otherwise, don't plan on anybody coming up to you unless they really wanna holla, which is actually a good thing if someone is willing enough to talk to a mean lookin female.
Cosign w/everything he just said.
  [Report Abuse] [Quote]
Princess LaRonda replied on 05-29-2005 02:59AM [Reply]
its 2005 baby dont just wait for nuggahs to approach you...approach them
  [Report Abuse] [Quote]
replied on 05-29-2005 09:35AM [Reply]
Nahd wrote:
its 2005 baby dont just wait for nuggahs to approach you...approach them
PREACH Dont be scared to walk up to that niggro and start conversation. Hell, we be doin it to yall since the beginning of time.
  [Edit] [Delete] [Report Abuse] [Quote]
Imaginelyfe06 replied on 05-29-2005 10:03AM [Reply]
laidbackfella wrote:
Would you really want a man that was intimidated by your facial expression and he's not even talking to you? If he doesn't think he can bring a smile to your face it's probably best that he stays wherever he is. What would happen when he sees his own shadow?
man that was an intelligent reply
  [Report Abuse] [Quote]
replied on 05-29-2005 06:02PM [Reply]
chancebychanel wrote:
BUT I CANT SEE MYSELF GOING UP AND APPROACHING A GUY. I MAY BE OLD SCHOOL BUT THAT SEEMS DESPERATE TO ME.
Girl please. It's all in your approach. Now if you run all up on him, with no game or conversation, instantly asking for his number, then you would look desperate. But if you just start a nice conversation with him and show him your interested, he'll be asking for your number first.
  [Edit] [Delete] [Report Abuse] [Quote]
Just_2_Much replied on 05-29-2005 06:35PM [Reply]
I always have a straight serious face because I am a straight serious person. To be honest I weed out a lot of the young knuckleheads and playas that way. Someone will approach you, trust me. More than likely it will be someones personality whom you find attractive also.
  [Report Abuse] [Quote]
Reply To Topic
In order to post a response to this topic, please login below or click here to signup.
Email Address:
Password:
Page 1 of 4 1234  >  Last
Home > Forums > Interest Groups > For The Ladies
Sponsored Content Create an Ad
Follow Us!
Link To Us!
Do you have a website? Link to HBCU Connect!