Hey everybody.. mayb its juss me.. but.. i love my HBCU (VIRGINIA STATE UNIVERSITY)..but for some reason.. i feel like a outkast.. its eitha girls grittin on me.. or they..juss dont wanna be my friend. VSU..have some.. great activities..but i feel so alone.. i juss had so many expectations for my freshmen year...and none have been fulfilled.. its sad..when i only made 1 friend this year. Its so depressin at times.. my eyes might water..because.. im goin to dinner alone..and everyone..is havin a goodtime..chattin wit other people. Its not like i have been anti-social.. i have always had friends in high school..so that is why.. i am clueless, its as if..black females dont like me or somethin. SO HAVE ANY OF YA'LL GOT ANY SUGGESTIONS ON WHAT IS UP.. OR HAVE YOU EXPERIENCED THIS TOO?
THANX,
1 LONELY TROJANETTE..
somebody please help..dis is my baby right here i've been tellin her tha same thing for the past yr. at first i went to dis white private school but i jus couldnt stand bein dat far away from my baby plus tha school wasnt givin me any kind of sense of belonging either so i came home still not wit her but it wuz closer.. den a whole lotta ****happened to me right after new years a string of deaths in tha family my parents split up and threw dat whole storm she wuz still standin right der wit me tha whole time and for dat i will do anything for my baby (nisha03_vsu) but still she feels unhappy so i make tha 1hr. 1/2 trip bout every otha weekend to pick her up so she can spend tha weekend with me and i can treat her like tha queen she is but somewhere along all of dis i still see it in her it jus wasnt enuf so now with a week left is her saddest moment and i have tha slightest idea wut to do if somebody else has advice please help my girl out and i ask dat u save tha free post for anotha subj. please dis one is serious. but since dis reply is long enuf imma get to tha point im transferrin nex sem. to be wit her and i hope dat me there can be enuf for her to overcome dis depression.
THAT DOES SEEM TO BE A DEPRESSING SITUATION BUT, TRUST ME MAYBE THAT ONE FRIEND YOU MADE ALONG WITH YOUR B/F TRANSFERRING THERE IS ALL YOU NEED GIRL. TRUST ME, RUNNING WITH A LOT OF GIRLS DEPENDING ON HOW THEY ARE CAN BE A VERY BAD EXPERIENCE. MOST FEMALES LOVE TO STIRR UP TROULBE WITH THEIR JEALOUS WAYS AND JUST LOVE TO MAKE THINGS HARD WHEN THEY CAN BE SIMPLE. I AM A FEMALE AND PERSONALLY I RATHER HAVE MALES AS FRIENDS THAN FEMALES. DONT GET ME WRONG I HAVE GOOD FEMALE FRIENDS THAT I'VE KNOWN FOR YEARS BUT FOR THE MOST PART THE MAJORITY OF MY FRIENDS ARE MALES.
SO HANG ON TO YOUR FRIEND THAT YOU DID MAKE UNTIL YOUR BOO COMES. AND I THINK WHEN HE GETS THERE BOTH HIM AND YOUR FRIEND WILL BE ALL YOU NEED. :wink:
THAT DOES SEEM TO BE A DEPRESSING SITUATION BUT, TRUST ME MAYBE THAT ONE FRIEND YOU MADE ALONG WITH YOUR B/F TRANSFERRING THERE IS ALL YOU NEED GIRL. TRUST ME, RUNNING WITH A LOT OF GIRLS DEPENDING ON HOW THEY ARE CAN BE A VERY BAD EXPERIENCE. MOST FEMALES LOVE TO STIRR UP TROULBE WITH THEIR JEALOUS WAYS AND JUST LOVE TO MAKE THINGS HARD WHEN THEY CAN BE SIMPLE. I AM A FEMALE AND PERSONALLY I RATHER HAVE MALES AS FRIENDS THAN FEMALES. DONT GET ME WRONG I HAVE GOOD FEMALE FRIENDS THAT I'VE KNOWN FOR YEARS BUT FOR THE MOST PART THE MAJORITY OF MY FRIENDS ARE MALES.
SO HANG ON TO YOUR FRIEND THAT YOU DID MAKE UNTIL YOUR BOO COMES. AND I THINK WHEN HE GETS THERE BOTH HIM AND YOUR FRIEND WILL BE ALL YOU NEED. :wink:
sometimes it is necessary for you to be alone for a while. you think you are alone but what you dont know is that God is workin on you. This is your time to create a new you with God in the picture. no matter how many friends you try to get you will not be successful unitl you confront God. so do that and just understand in your heart that right now is your time to be easy and let him do his work. If it was meant for you to have friends at this point in time you would. Dont worry you are not alone and you are not an outkast. aight.
