Since the system ate up my original post I'll try to condense what I wrote.
I think that anything that I may miss so to speak isn't a result of my own doing. Because I'm the same Kourtney as I was prior to Zeta coming into my life.
However,at times I miss that before....I was associated as MYSELF and greetings to me weren't so trivialized. It bugs me that a) people expect Greek life to have changed me and b)I'm reduced to the colors on my back or the letters across my chest. Sometimes I want to check folks and be like "Hi, my name is Kourtney C. Igbo, I'm a child of God, born to Monica&Emanuel, a genuinely kind person, and a member of Zeta Phi Beta Sorority,Inc." Mostly just so that people realize that I am a lot of things in this world--acknowledge them fairly and don't assume one dominates.
I know...that mostly people don't realize this so it's straight...but...it's still sorta a soft spot.
But other than that....nope!!!! :lol: There isn't anything I "miss." I love my organization and everything it stands for as well as my extended Blue&White Family. 8-) I also have love for all other Greeks because we have a sort a mutual standing.
Oh yes...I'm fully aware that the issue I expressed may simply be a result of dealing with young mentalities on a college campus. ;-)
most definitely and got you straight SCARED to be nice to nongreeks for fear of what other greeks may say or think about you
you need to get ya Sh*t together mama
**** is this dude serious! lmaooo i for one dont give 2 flyin fu*ks about what other people THINK of me. maybe its time u get ur ****together.
****@ u tryin 2 check me...jump off