I initiate it sometimes, if i'm really hot and a nikka is working on slow...tryna play all gentleman like. Then there are times...when he needs to get it started. It just depends.
Im more of the chill if it happens it happens type
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I also concur...I get caught up in moments and that's how it goes most of the time for me...And I also concur with whoever said a dude askin to just put the head in is lame...that's a sorry **** negroe right there in my opinion...that's one of those things where a woman is like "no this n!gga didnt just say..."
^^^...The times I took that wait and see approach, ya boy ended up bein sadly dissapointed. It's all about the signals she's sending, cause a brotha ain't doin nothing without the go ahead.