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What do you REALLY look for.... Posted on 07-16-2005
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List the qualites in a man that you REALLY look for. If you dont REALLY look to see how good a person he is, dont put it in the list. When you first meet a guy, and you start sizing him up to see what he's like, what do you REALLY look for? Ya'll be honest.
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Poody from Sandy Springs, GA replied on 07-16-2005 11:41PM [Reply]
When i FIRST meet somebody i actually look at: How cool he is wit his friends If he funny and ish Does he have a goal in life where he'll actually be successful and it'll be a good thing If he's a cutie If he actually goes to class or is in school (i cant be wit no dumb n!gga) If he is disrespectful and dats on da real
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IgnoranceIsBliss from Dallas, TX replied on 07-17-2005 06:54AM [Reply]

Well I have to be physically attracted to dude, or I would be interested in the first place. I look at his skin tone, teeth, hair, and lips. Then another instant quality is if he has a sense of humor and some sort of lively personality. If he's corny and says corny things, I'm turned off right away.
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cherrybottom69 replied on 07-17-2005 07:06PM [Reply]
i like men who can be there selves, so this will be the first thing i look for http://www.xanga.com/asu_cutie
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prettypoet8804 from Hayward, CA replied on 07-17-2005 07:52PM [Reply]

i honestly look first for a nice smile. i don't really trip too much if teeth are a little crooked cause my teeth aren't perfect. but clean teeth are a must. clean is a must period. i also usually like the boys who are quieter around their friends because they're usually the last ones trying to put up a front, in my experience.
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replied on 07-17-2005 08:20PM [Reply]
prettypoet8804 wrote:
i also usually like the boys who are quieter around their friends because they're usually the last ones trying to put up a front, in my experience.
I'm probably the most flamboyant and unsubdued person around my friends, but they also know that I'm not ashamed to express how I feel about my woman (if I had one, of course).
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chancebychanel from New Haven, CT replied on 07-17-2005 10:08PM [Reply]
I really look for besides his physical appearance is : *His aura, I like someone who has presence and a voice or look that demands respect *His personality *If he's a leader and not afraid to be himself, I like that *His sense of humor *His over all manliness. Being just like masculine and stuff turns me on, its so many as Arnold Schwarsenegger can say "girly men" out there.
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replied on 07-17-2005 11:07PM [Reply]
When i first meet a guy i usually look @ *His shoes (i don't know why but i do) *His ability to actually carry on an intellectual conversation *Personality *Sense of humor
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replied on 07-17-2005 11:09PM [Reply]
I look for a bit of shyness, a nice personality, goal-oriented, a sense of humor, charm, and the overall "physicality" (LOL, I know it's not really a word, but I discussed this with SoundCheck a while back): how he smells, the way he moves, how he presents himself with me and in the presence of others, how he would feel if I hugged him, etc.
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ManifestDSTiny33 replied on 07-18-2005 09:23AM [Reply]
At first, he has to look good not smiling... cuz chances are, he's not going to be smiling when I first see him... as i get closer, he has to look clean... I can't stand stains that are obvious.... as earlier stated, his aura is the next thing I pick up on.. there should be something in his eyes that tells me about him... his manliness... his personality (he doesn't have to be the center of attention... Actually.. if he is somewhat aloof to the group, it shows me that he is not afraid to be different..)... then on another level, how he treats women.. and his male friends also... his scholarliness (word or not?).. his ambition... etc... I can't really break it all down, but I thnk those are the basics...
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