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I Just Don't Get It!! Posted on 08-04-2005
Baby_Ro

Give me some feedback: I am a crazy girl, I always go someplace and make a scene, nothin bad, just me actin retarded with a few friends makin people laugh cuz I'm goofy. My home girl Jennifer has been begging me to go to church with her for youth service. I didn't want to go at first because of the rumors that their a cult and they be brainwashin kids. I finally went and it was pretty cool, she started picking me up wednesdays and sunday evenings because I don't have my car yet. Now, her lil brother(Jonathan) is 16, and I'm 17, Jen is 18. We use to talk a lil but I didn't feel nothin, not even us being friends, we were like passing ships, so I stopped talkin to him. That was a year ago, and since I started go to youth service with her, he started to like me again, and I told him straight up that I didn't like him like that anymore. Then, this past Saturday, Jennifer had a get together at her house, she didn't invite me! I found out about it because my other friend got into it with some girl there and he called me and told me, and asked me why I wasn't there, because everyone knows that me and jennifer are "suppose to be" best friends!! I called her and asked her if she had forgot about me and she said her brother didn't want to see my face and she didn't want me to start an arguement. I don't understand, I didn't do, or say anything to him that was mean, I kept it real. I wasn't going to start an arguement because of the simple fact that I didn't say anything to him after that, he didn't call me I continued to be friends wit Jen. Another friend, Walter called me and told me that he heard what happened and he said Jen is going to take up for her lil bro. and I said fine, she can do that I take up for my bro. but I didn't do or say anything wrong, So what I want to know is: Why is Jen actin like that? and Is she right in not inviting me to her get together or commin to get me for youth service because her brother didn't want to see my face??? someone give me some feedback!! cuz I just don't understand :???:
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The Big Girl Sweetz replied on 08-04-2005 06:05PM [Reply]
I dont know Jen....so i dont know.... :neutral: but sounds like some elementary school BS...is it really THAT serious??
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replied on 08-04-2005 07:15PM [Reply]
The Fat Girl Sweet Lee wrote:
I dont know Jen....so i dont know.... :neutral: but sounds like some elementary school BS...is it really THAT serious??
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replied on 08-04-2005 07:30PM [Reply]
I don't know what her problem is....but for your second question no one is obligated to invite you anywhere, regardless if you feel that yall are bestfriends. If you weren't invited you weren't invited, i wouldn't dwell on it.
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replied on 08-04-2005 08:33PM [Reply]
LivinLyfe Like Its G0lden wrote:
I don't know what her problem is....but for your second question no one is obligated to invite you anywhere, regardless if you feel that yall are bestfriends. If you weren't invited you weren't invited, i wouldn't dwell on it.
Don't trip over all that high school BS because there really aint no need for it. u should be worrying about college and how u paying for tuition and such. But i mean....*sigh* lemme think how i would ansa something like this if my lil cousin told me this....... Okay, instead of wasting a thread and relying on other people's opinions tell ya girl how u feel. And i mean, #1 if she thinks ur that reckless to start some beef at a party for no reason, then maybe it was for the best (sometimes ur friends know u betta than u know yaself) # 2, he aint wanna see ya face. baby boy's feelings are hurt. he's a 16 yr old kid. so if ur "best friend" is feeding into his BS, then bump em both, # 3, who cares if u werent invited to a "gathering"? SO WHAT.?! Like LivinLyfe said, she dont havta invite u. get over it
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replied on 08-05-2005 12:59AM [Reply]
LivinLyfe Like Its G0lden wrote:
I don't know what her problem is....but for your second question no one is obligated to invite you anywhere, regardless if you feel that yall are bestfriends. If you weren't invited you weren't invited, i wouldn't dwell on it.
Your right, I shouldn't dwell over stupid H.S bs, because I'm gettin ready to graduate this year I got better things to do with my time. Thanks, I think that was the constructive *criticism* I needed!! *Did I spell that right? But it just goes to show, sometimes you don't know who your friends are, thats ok, subject dropped!!! Thanks for the feedback!!!
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Poody replied on 08-06-2005 01:29AM [Reply]
ok ummm i know this is a messageboard an errthang and A LOT of people come here for advice.......but its just some things we cant answer mmmkay. We cannot tell you why Jen is acting like that. Hell maybe she's a nutcase. Find a new friend wit some sense.
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The Big Girl Sweetz replied on 08-06-2005 02:08AM [Reply]
lol...besides...ol' girl did say so herself that she is crazy and that she makes a scene wherever she goes...hmmmmm....so why did you need feedback knowin damn well how you behave?? not to sound mean or anything....i just thought was a bit odd lol
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replied on 08-12-2005 09:39PM [Reply]
what she did was not right at all. whatever goes on between you and her brother has nothing to do with you and her's friendship. so when her brother gets married and has a fight with his wife, she isn't going to invite the wife over to thanksgiving dinner? you can't do that. that's immature. maybe she overheard her brother fuming about how he likes you or something and she took it the wrong way. either way, i understand she wants to stand up for her brother, but if she's your friend she'd let you and him be one thing and you and her be another if she's not mature enough to handle that then "best" friend isn't the right title for right now
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