How much can someone's name really tell you about them? can it really tell you if they will be a good friend or even a good boyfriend?
Try to be as real as possible but don't cut no one's head off in here, it's just for conversation so keep it light, lol!
here's my feelings on it
I think subconconsiously, i do take someones name into account. I knew a boy whose name was Roy Paul. not only does it sound like ru paul(the famous crossdresser) but my name is Jennifer Joseph, which would make a whole lot of damn first names! I also knew a boy whose last name was Smallwood, you figure that one out, lol.
But trust me, i would never say or think "yuck, his name is Kilopoma Newtonboomerman, i can't go out with him even though he cute, sucessful, understanding, caring, and smart just because his name is strange, lol."
How do you feel about it?
well being that it wasn't their fault they got that name in the first place...i dont think it's fair to penalize them for somethin they have no control over....if his last name bothers you that much and he is marriage type...then dont use his last name...hell...he can switch to your last name...or neither....it dont matter...its not written in stone that we must take his last name lol....
i mean.....yeah i do i aint gon sugarcoat it. i just cant picture me saying "yeah girl but u should see my man Lance he so fine" like yeah the fukk right get outta here. i guess cuz i'm used to hood names.
my ex-boyfriend's last name is Bean and at first i was like "if i marry this guy, that would be my last name too." but after a while i forgot that was his last name. it doesn't really faze me n-e-more.