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Why do females hold grudges? Posted on 11-18-2005
Wes

I'm not a perfect person by a long shot. I realize this, and I don't expect anyone I talk to.....whether it be on a friendship level, or deeper, to be perfect, either. I've been done wrong in a lot of ways during my lifetime, but I am a very forgiving person, and am willing to give second, sometimes even third chances. But as of late, I have noticed that the females of this day and age are not very forgiving at all. A lot of females go by the "one strike, you're out" type deal. It's almost as if females nowadays demand perfection and flawlessness out of the males that they deal with. So females, I ask you, why is it that some of you find it so hard to give second chances, or even worse, hold grudges and not even be willing to hold a conversation with a person after only one mistake?
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replied on 11-19-2005 01:27AM [Reply]
It's not just the females that hold grudges, bruh...
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Kismet_TNT replied on 11-19-2005 02:18PM [Reply]
^^^^Kool I was gonna say the same thing....but I didn't wanna be accused of beefing. I actually wrote a good 15 sentences, but decided not to post. Don't wanna add fuel to the fire.
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Blutifully Human replied on 11-19-2005 04:51PM [Reply]
Kool 2k6 wrote:
It's not just the females that hold grudges, bruh...
thank u Dame :grin: And to say that females are not "forgiving" is also a stretch. Becuz i actually see it the other way around. Countless females stick with their man after being cheated on countless times, treated badly, and even abused. Half of the time, all a man needs to say is "I'm sorry. I love you baby" and a woman will start boohooing and take his behind back with a quickness. I've known more men who have bounced with even just the assumption that their woman was cheating (even if they're guilty of cheating themselves). And then there are some men who will stick by their woman. It is different from person to person.
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replied on 11-19-2005 07:29PM [Reply]
Blutifully Human wrote:
Kool 2k6 wrote:
It's not just the females that hold grudges, bruh...
thank u Dame :grin: And to say that females are not "forgiving" is also a stretch. Becuz i actually see it the other way around. Countless females stick with their man after being cheated on countless times, treated badly, and even abused. Half of the time, all a man needs to say is "I'm sorry. I love you baby" and a woman will start boohooing and take his behind back with a quickness. I've known more men who have bounced with even just the assumption that their woman was cheating (even if they're guilty of cheating themselves). And then there are some men who will stick by their woman. It is different from person to person.
Nice to see YOU chimin' in, ole stranger you! :razz: :razz: But urruhh, yeah. Since we ALL want what's bad for us (when it comes to relationships), a lot of us end up NOT holding grudges until the ****hits the fan.
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saxxxmepoetically from akron, OH replied on 11-19-2005 11:56PM [Reply]

Blutifully Human wrote:
Kool 2k6 wrote:
It's not just the females that hold grudges, bruh...
And to say that females are not "forgiving" is also a stretch. Becuz i actually see it the other way around. Countless females stick with their man after being cheated on countless times, treated badly, and even abused. Half of the time, all a man needs to say is "I'm sorry. I love you baby" and a woman will start boohooing and take his behind back with a quickness. I've known more men who have bounced with even just the assumption that their woman was cheating (even if they're guilty of cheating themselves). And then there are some men who will stick by their woman. It is different from person to person.
damn... i couldnt have said it myself. men are less forgiving than women.. and if you run into a woman who doesnt forgive you for something you did, its probally because they have forgiven someone before for the same thing over and over again, and you may fall into that catergory where they dont want to forgive anymore
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Kismet_TNT replied on 11-21-2005 12:53AM [Reply]
^^^^^^COSIGN!!!!!
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replied on 11-21-2005 04:10PM [Reply]
Grudges make you emotionally even physically sick. I find that when you hold a grudge, it's usually something wrong with yourself.
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