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This is why u cant Get or Keep a Man !

This is why u cant Get or Keep a Man !
Posted By: Eboni Jackson on June 23, 2005


Relationships seem to make the world go round, thats all people ever talk about. " My man this" and " My Shorty that".

Ladies might get upset at me on this one, but alot of you are Nagging, Dramatic, Messy, and you Blow small things out of proportion.

Alot of women arent comfortable with themselves.


Cant Cook
Can care less how they up keep themselves
Arent Intresting
Talk too much
Carry Baggage
or You Give it Up TOO EASY (then wonder why da dude hasnt called u the next morning)

The problem isnt the guy, its the position/role u choose to accept in his life.

Dont be fast to judge and say " All men are doggz" or " There arent any more good men! "

Because * You might just be the one Lacking emotion, skill, and maturity*

U WANT THE WHOLE NINE YARDS, YET DONT DESERVE IT.
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Kennard Wheat
Alabama State University class of 2010
You are so right I couldn't have said it any better.......
Friday, June 24th 2005 at 12:12PM
Marquis Davis
Clark Atlanta University class of 2009
I feel u 100%. Being a good man myself, i cant stand women naggin about the absence of good men when they're far from heaven-sent themselves. Relationships are such a two way street that its irresponsible for either side to point fingers.
Friday, June 24th 2005 at 1:44PM
Alana Toolie
Eastern Illinois Univ class of 2007
Extremely harsh. Yet so true. I'm so happy more women are deciding to examine themselves to see what the problem is.
Friday, June 24th 2005 at 3:54PM
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