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Ladies this is something we need to realize.....

Ladies this is something we need to realize.....
Posted By: Danielle Jones on June 30, 2005


Sister's pay attention, Brothers share it with your
>mothers, daughters, sisters and friends
>
>
>If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
>If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
>Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
>
>Allow your intuition(or spirit) to save you from heartache.
>
>Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship
>that's not meant to be.
>Slower is better. Never live your life for a man
>before you find what makes you truly happy.
>
>If a relationship ends because the man was not
>treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't be
>friends
>A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend. Don't settle. If
>you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
>
>Don't stay because you think it will get better
>
>You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying
>when things are not better.
>The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
>
>Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of
>different women.
>He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, Why
>would he treat you any differently?
>
>Always have your own set of friends separate from his. Maintain boundaries
>in how a guy treats you.
>
>If something bothers you, speak up.
>
>Never let a man know everything, he will use it
>against you later.
>
>You cannot change a man's behavior, change comes from within.
>
>Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you
>are...



even if he has more education or in a better
>job.
>
>Do not make him into a quasi-god.
>He is a man, nothing more nothing less. Never let a man define who you are.
>
>Never borrow someone else's man.
>If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.
>A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to
>treat you.
>All men are NOT dogs.
>You should not be the one doing all the
>bending...compromise is two way street.
>You need time to heal between relationships...
>
>there is nothing cute about baggage... deal with your issues before
>pursuing a new relationship
>
>You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a
>relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...look
>for
>someone complimentary...not supplementary. Dating is fun...even if he
>doesn't turn out to be Mr.
>Right.
>Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know
>where you are,
>and your always readily available to him- he takes it
>for granted.
>
>Never move into his mother's house.
>
>Never co-sign for a man.
>(Hallelujah, thank you Jesus!)
>Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you
>everything that you need.
>
>Keep him in your radar but get to know others.
>
>Share this with other ladies.....
>
>You'll make someone smile, another rethink her
>choices,
>and another woman prepare.
>
>
>
>They say it takes a minute to find a special person,
>an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them and an
>entire lifetime to forget them.
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Alfred Blake
Oakwood College class of 2007
Ok danielle.... or sista' wisdom! That was a good thought. I will make sure to shar that with others. Stay true to what you said in the blog, cause if you start slipping i'm gonna pull you saide and straighten you up aiight!
Wednesday, August 24th 2005 at 3:39PM
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