Decide What You Want for Yourself in 2009
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Posted By: Pam Perry on January 02, 2009 by Jack Canfield In order to get what you want, you must first decide what you want. Most people really foul up at this crucial first step because they simply can't see how it's possible to get what they want -- so they don't even let themselves want it. What scientists now know about how the brain works is that you must first decide the 'WHAT' before your brain can figure out the 'HOW'. Once you lock-in your desires, your mind and the universe can step in. Are you ready to get started? STEP 1: Decide to Dream BIG and Be Willing to Dream BIG Dreams Big dreams not only inspire you, but they also compel others to want to play big, too. Don't think you should only dream big during economic heydays. Dream big every day, especially during tough times. As soon as you commit to a big dream and really go after it, your subconscious creative mind will come up with big ideas to make it happen. You'll start attracting the people, resources, and opportunities you need into your life to make your dream come true. STEP 2: Set Goals That Will Stretch You Another value in giving yourself permission to go after the big dreams is that big dreams require you to grow in order to achieve them. In fact, in the long run, this is the greatest benefit you will receive from pursuing your dreams -- not so much the outer trappings of fulfilling the dream (an expensive car, impressive house, loads of money and philanthropic opportunities), but who you become in the process. As I've seen many times over, the outer symbols of success can all be easily lost. Houses burn down, companies go bankrupt, relationships end, cars get old, bodies age and fame wanes, but who you are, what you have learned, and the new skills you have developed never go away. These are the true prizes of success. STEP 3: Service to Others As you pinpoint what you want to go after, think about how you can be of service to others. When your dreams include this element, you'll find yourself speeding along the path to accomplishing that goal. People want to be part of something that contributes and makes a difference. STEP 4: Turn Your Dreams into Goals and Objectives Once you are clear about what you want, you must turn each item into a measurable goal. By measurable, I mean measurable in space and time, how much and by when. Don't just say that you want to lose weight, for instance. Be specific, push yourself to higher limits, and set dates. Say something like, "I want to lose 50 pounds by summer and participate in my community's 10K for charity by the 4th of July." Similarly, your boss, your friends, your spouse, your brain -- God, the Universe -- can't figure out what you want unless you specifically tell them what it is. What do you want -- exactly -- and when do you want it by? Step 5: Write Your Goals Down Write your goals down in detail, and read your list of goals every day. This will keep your subconscious mind focused on what you want. For an even more powerful approach, close your eyes and focus on each goal and ask yourself, "What is one thing I could do today to move toward the achievement of this goal?" Write down your answers and take those actions. I recommend writing down a minimum of 3 goals in each of the following 7 areas: 1. Financial Goals 2. Career/Business Goals 3. Free Time/Family Time 4. Health/Appearance Goals 5. Relationship Goals 6. Personal Growth 7. Making a Difference If you want help getting started, I have a handy worksheet for you that models this formula, including examples. Go to www.MinistryMarketingSolutions.blogspot.com & www.PamPerryPRcoach.com for resources & coaching and start creating all that you want from your life and all that you deserve! OR shoot me an email! © 2008 Jack Canfield www.PamPerryPR.com (get free MP3) If you enjoyed this article, Join HBCU CONNECT today for similar content and opportunities via email! |
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Pam Perry
Social Media Strategist, Ministry Marketing Solutions Wayne St Univ class of 1983 Member Since July 2008 |
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This is as beautiful and as true as the sun will rise as the moon sets. Me. I reach for the universe, and who knows maybe there is something beyond the "known" universe...
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