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question for males.

question for males.
Posted By: Candis Ames-Morton on July 13, 2005


ok, i'm not trying to hate on the male population or nothing jus giving some background for my question. It seems like alot of males are coming at girls with the same motives, same lines, same stuff we've all heard before with a game we know. and when somebody points that out to a male they get upset and say we being stereotypical and that i'm different from all these other dudes. So i was jus curious guys, what do u think makes you different from the next guy?
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Anthony Brooks
Teen Director at Boys and Girls Club
Ok let me see...........................umm... how bout nobody is they same in this world. Sure boys tend to think tha same when it comes to are women. We somtimes think with are pants instead of our head. but we are human and thats the way it is. But babygirl there are some good men out there and ur very pretty so one will come across ur way someday. On the game part i myself don't got no "pick up lines" i just ask for ur name talk lil bit and if i like u i'll for ur number and see if we can meet up somtime then take it from there. i don't go up to them and say " hey mama u fine as hell, u a hot fox what part of heaven u fall from etc..." I think thats disrespectful and rude. So i think thats what make me different from the next guy.
Wednesday, July 13th 2005 at 3:55PM
Edward ( Chad )
Southern University class of 2008
Well first what makes me different is that im my own person, I think what i want to think & do what i want to do? BUT i do understand where you are coming from, like anthony said you do have alot of men that think with there pants. Most males will holla just cause a girl is thick but that not every male. I was raised with three females so i know what to say and how to treat a female, Not to add that my father is a real man one that has always taught me to respect a female no matter what, and not to twist the question but What make you different from the next female?
Wednesday, July 13th 2005 at 4:43PM
Darryl D. Smith
Grambling State University class of 2007
I'm different from the next guy, because I don't use lines. I'm myself. No need to use lines to get a girl. They are more interested in your lines than you. I also try to understand females. I try to understand why they feel like they feel, why they think like they think, and so on. I'm also one of those guys who knows how to be a friend...and not just some pursuer. Too many dudes are friends because they want some. Me...I'd rather a friend than a broken heart and hatred between us...
Wednesday, July 13th 2005 at 4:47PM
Stacy Adams
Albany State University class of 2008
I don't know why a lot of guys do that. Especially a lot of cats from the A who will straight cuss a girl out if he get dissed (it is funny as hell though). I just be myself if I am talking to a female because I wouldn't want another side of me to come out later on down the line and she tell her friends something like," He don't act the way he used to." That's because when you running game it's not you speaking, its the person you want to be.
Wednesday, July 13th 2005 at 10:49PM
WILLIAM W. HEMMANS III
Florida A&M University class of 1995
The ame things that makes women different from each other from their points of views.
I have a list longer than your life on lines, games etc. that women play. Usually the ones who speak out the most from my experiences.
Just keeping it real and no dis to you Sis.
I don't know you so I am responding to your question.

Thursday, October 27th 2005 at 9:28PM
WILLIAM W. HEMMANS III
Florida A&M University class of 1995
Oh addendum, the most popular line that women, females etc. use is how long it has been...
There are more game from women because women out number men. Also for men to fit in the category that you write about, there has to be women evenly yoked.
From Proverbs up to 2Timothy 3:6, "God" faults both sides equally and calls out those where the shoe fits. Also Jezebel is mentioned from Old to New Testament. I can go on and on.
Yes there are males that are not right. I fire on that, but there are just as many women also. Men can not do what they do without a female accomplice. Can't play by yourself.
Thursday, October 27th 2005 at 9:34PM
Jonathan Wright
Miles College class of 2010
I DONT KNOW
I have never walked up on a girl (Im fa real).
Monday, March 6th 2006 at 12:12AM
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