5 COMMON FIRST DATE MISTAKES WOMEN SHOULD AVOID
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Posted By: Siebra Muhammad on April 06, 2009 So you’ve had a great first date with that cute guy who you really wouldn’t mind seeing again? However, it’s been three days and he still hasn’t called you. You wonder, what did I do wrong? I thought we both had a great time… So wouldn’t it be nice to make the right first impression? Well, why don’t we start with what NOT to do; because it’s the little things that make guys run for the hills: 1. Trying to hard to be sexy/ too forward/ too predatory Contrary to what some girls think, overtly attempting to flirt and make provocative sexy advances too early on is a big turn off. Put plainly, it freaks a guy out, and whether true or not, be sure he will make all kinds of assumptions about how promiscuous a girl is based on this behaviour. You can also be sure that he’ll assume you act this way for every guy. Also, Shock! Horror! A man may ACTUALLY wants to get to know a bit about you as a person. 2. Laughing all the time - No-one is that funny The end-result of this kind of behaviour for the guy is stale conversation and a lack of challenge. If a guy feels like you’ll clap and dance at anything he says, he will get bored. It is better to tease him slightly when he’s not funny; he’ll respect you more for not being so easily entertained. 3. Drinking too much Quite simple. Women don’t like drunk men; women about to keel over with alcohol are just as repellent to the male species. There is no greater mood killer for a man than when a girl he has just been kissing turns and seductively whispers in his ear “I am sooo drunk right now”. 4. Trying to appear to strong and not letting their vulnerable side show This is a tricky one for many women to get right, especially those who enjoy being very independent. Here’s the thing, self-sufficient strong women are sexy, but men want to know there is a sweet girl with feelings in there somewhere. If a guy gets the feeling you’re an ice queen incapable of romance, he may look elsewhere for a woman more likely to cuddle up with him when the weather turns cold. 5. Giggling and whispering with girl mates Ironically, when it comes to getting male attraction, your best friends can be your worst enemies. Turning around every minute to whisper conspiratorially with your girlfriends may drive him crazy, but NOT in the way you might be hoping! It makes a man feel like you don’t respect him enough to include him or pay attention to what he has to say. Bottom line: Don’t make these common, but easy to make mistakes. Even just doing this will put you way ahead of the curve. Brothers, you are welcome to comment, as always. Love 2 Live & Live 2 Love, Siebra P.S. I AM GUILTY OF COMMITTING MISTAKE NUMBER 2 & 4 AT LEAST ONE DURING MY LIFETIME... If you enjoyed this article, Join HBCU CONNECT today for similar content and opportunities via email! |
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Siebra Muhammad
A Registration Clerk/Specialist, New Orleans Public Schools Other College... class of 2001 Member Since November 2008 |
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Nowadays everyone is into game-playing. Most consider themselves as being PLAYAS. But there comes a point when you put away childish things. The biggest PLAYAS ? The system and the whole society scene, how it's set up and still manipulates. Women need to start setting examples for our young females to emulate, and try to learn how to be a Goddess. The world has been waiting for her to set the standards and change behaviors in relationships across the board. Our men are looking for us to direct the new path for lifestyles. This is why the Goddess's time is NOW ! There are questions that need to be asked from every woman on a date. One is : what are your goals and plans for the future ? Everything is not hee-hee-ha-ha ! ( I'm not talking about not having fun,.... fun is a part of it ) Another is : How does an ideal mate for you fit into your plans ? Just these two questions alone, says, that you're no dummie, is interested in what he's about and where you might possibly fit into the scheme of things. Believe change is coming ! Not only with what everyone is saying right now, but what is going to get done. See if men were Goddesses, they'd be workin the room, and aware of ALL their powers ! Most of us don't know who we are, what we have and where we come from. Tuesday, April 7th 2009 at 10:38AM |
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Open and honest COMMUNICATION is always a social magic bullet, a cure all in the end...
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