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Laci Simmons Johnson C. Smith University class of 2006 Well honestly it depends in the female. I gave guys a hard time because I was done wrong by many guys in my life. Now i know Im only 21, but I know how I am suppose to e treated. But I gave the title dogs to all guys because that was all I expected out of guys who tried to holla. I mean game recognize game and back then I was a pimp so I knew what was up, but Now Im with a wonderful man I will never treat badly because he showed me respect first. But on that same note GUYS do the same thing. When a female does them wrong they thing bad about every other lady after her. And when they finally meet a girl who wants to be with them its hard for them to open up and in most cases FU*K them over also. SO this title really is person based because everyone doesnt do that. Thursday, July 14th 2005 at 12:55AM

LaShonda Redd Tuskegee University class of 2009 I see it as a mean cycle that wont ever break feel me? I mean guys treat girls wrong and because girls are treated wrong girls dont know how to react with someone who is ready to treat them like they should be treated and then the guy gets treated wrong and then he treats the next girl wrong. Its just a mean cycle that cant be broken. I mean when everyone treats people they way they want to be treated then it will be straight but until then it aint going to happen. I mean aint no one's fault not the girls or the boys because in the end when you find out why a guy treats a female wrong he'll say because he was hurt by a female and if you ask a bitter woman why she mistreats her man she'll say because i wasn't treated right in my past. Past present and future holds the key to everyone's happiness. Im out Shonda Thursday, July 14th 2005 at 2:30PM

Candis Ames-Morton Hampton University class of 2009 lol that was my blog so i gotta holla back to this one, but thank you first for ya input..and to answer ya questions. i agree with the other comment that it is a cycle that keeps going, and usually before a girl gets to the guy that is willing to treat her right she'salready been messed over so much she figures, yea he nice now but his true self will come out one day and she won't open up to him or be herself because she always has herself on guard for fear that as soon as she opens herself up to him he will hurt her...past experiences is usually what shapes a persons thinking and even though you gotta let the past be the past it still reflects on how you may act in future situations...i know that there are alot of good men out there who know how to treat a woman like she should be treated but they've either been hurt or some woman don't know how to handle a man who aint playing games...so for all the real men that i know are out there train your fellow males and tell them to stop making it hard for ya!! Thursday, July 14th 2005 at 3:47PM

swantasha stokes South Carolina State University class of 2008 Good question! The reason that I give a man that is willing to get to know me a hard time is because i have been in many bad relationships. I mean when you meet a girl youknow from the jump if she is a good girl or one u could just chop ya know. When you get a good one give her a little time. The person I am with now is a good one and i swear i regret givin him a hard time, but if that is the girl u want, work with her Thursday, July 14th 2005 at 4:22PM

Kiahari Pringle Clark Atlanta University class of 2009 Chad, All boys are not dogs but the ones that are give others a bad name. Some females dont recognize a good man when they see one. Because of bad experiences they have shut all guys out. Each boy is different and she be put in a category by himself I feel because I don't like to be categorized with other females. I think that a boy will only treat you the way you allow them to. That is just my take on things I can't speak for anyone else. Talk to u later Tuesday, August 2nd 2005 at 11:55AM

Ashley Davis Howard University class of 2010 Many females not all that have been hurt by a male cannot distinguish the differences in men because of them being hurt previously. In many cases I think that the girls are afraid of the chance of being hurt again. So out of fear they close their minds and hearts. They cannot see the big picture that a good thing is upon them. They run that person away before they are hurt again. It's sad but you know what they say one bad apple spoils the bunch. The bunch being other men that may come into a girls life. But girls do this out of fear. If you have been the direct target of what some other dude has done to a gurl and she has taken it out on you don't fret over it. It's mostly insecurity in a woman. But I'm sure whatever the case may be you'll find the one for you who will appreciate you. You seem like a nice guy, all you can do is treat a woman like a lady because Chivalry ain't dead! Stay up! Thursday, August 4th 2005 at 7:36PM

Lexi T Tougaloo College class of 2008 here's 1 that would't hurt you!!! Monday, August 8th 2005 at 10:41PM

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