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CAN BIG GIRLS GET LOVE????

CAN BIG GIRLS GET LOVE????
Posted By: Janine Quarles on July 17, 2005

Now...usually, I hate talkin' about stuff like this. I think its stupid. I feel like if a person really like you for you, then you won't have to worry about your size. But I guess the problem is....getting them to want to get to know you. Now as you can see, I'm a big girl. BUt I usually don't have a big issue with dating; (I mean, I get a couple @ssholes every now and then, but who doesnt).



BUt there have been a couple guys that have said things to me like...."your pretty....for a big girl". WTF?! Either I'm pretty or I'm not.....Why do I need my own category?
So I guess my question to the fellaz is....Is size really a factor? What is it that turns you off? Are you intimidated? I don't know....I don't really care that much. Just curious I guess.
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Dapne Bolger
Florida A&M University class of 2009
Imma big girl too and have men telling me they want me for one thang. I don't like ignorance so if they don't really like me for my size thats ok too.
Sunday, July 17th 2005 at 12:43PM
Tiffany Wells
Grambling State University class of 2009
Hey Girl! Dont worry bout these n*ggaz out here. I have a lot of friends that r plus size and to me, they are not only beautiful but I dont see them as a "big girl" I see them as a girl. Most of them go thru the same thing that u r talkin about. I don't know y dudes say that to yall and put yall in ur own category. Thats like them sayin to me, ur cute...for a skinny girl! WFT do u really have to say that? But also from my experience from have guy friends, for most, size does matter. They might not admit it though but it does. I mean if ur not the perfect "video girl" size wit a big a$$ or big boobs or a cute face they aint gone talk to u. If u aint a girl that they can bring around their friends n' know his friends aint gone dog u, then he dont want u! The way my guy friends talk, that the way they see it but its not tru 4 all dudes!(had 2 say that b4 dudes start sending me not talkin bout Im wrong!) But dont worry bout em. Dont let these n*ggaz phase u cuz its nothin. Keep doin what chu do and keep livin yo life the way u want to!
Sunday, July 17th 2005 at 1:12PM
Branden D. Bufford (B. BUFF)
Howard University class of 2010
Well, honestly from a guys point of view, a guy will look at you at first glance and judge you from that. A lot, if not all, guys judge a girl from first glance. Me, I would do the same thing but if I got the chance to talk to a big girl and see what they are about, then I would be more attracted. Cause nothing is more attractive than a good personality! But if you carry yourself with confidence, not cockyness, and are classy and all that s*xy stuff, then you will get love. The only thing you have going against you is us guy's shallow first judgement of girls. Hope I helped, i'll holla
Sunday, July 17th 2005 at 2:27PM
Edward DeSean P
Alabama A&M University class of 2009
To tell you the truth, Every guy has a type of woman they go for!! like for me at the first glance i can pretty much tell if that girl is for me or not. Every guy I feel has there standards of what they like!! I have met alot of guys that was my friends in the past that has liked Larger girls than them. And i also have friends that don't. So pretty much dont trip and a guy that is the 1 for you and feelin you will like you for you.
Sunday, July 17th 2005 at 3:32PM
LaShonda Redd
Tuskegee University class of 2009
Yeah i agree with Edward if the guy is feeling you then he is feeling on his own. Whatever the guys preference is is his preference. I mean i think if you carry yourself the right way size doesn't matter cause my cousin is out there with her size but she gets her men and they want to marry her and everything, I think its the way she carries herself, if your a classy lady and act like it then it will show during first glance by the dude.
Im out
Shonda
Sunday, July 17th 2005 at 5:30PM
Marquis Davis
Clark Atlanta University class of 2009
Just like women look for s*xy guys, guys look for s*xy women. I have never had a taste for big girls but i dont think that it's wrong or ignorant of me to want to date someone i am physically attracted to. Just like girls want guys to have attractiveness and substance. Guys would like the same, its only human to satisfy ur taste
Sunday, July 17th 2005 at 5:48PM
swantasha stokes
South Carolina State University class of 2008
I agree with everyones comment but i just think that you all should be just a little more considerate. Before i left for college i was on the big side but when i came back i lost over 30 pounds, and i realized that the boys were coming like WHOA. I dont think that a girls should be judged for her outside i think it is all about the inside. you keep doing what you doing and dont let nothing stop you girl cause one day you will find you the perfect man just like i did!!!!
Monday, July 18th 2005 at 9:00AM
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