Dr. LaDonna Says : IT'S OKAY TO QUIT !!!!
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Posted By: Min.Dr.LaDonna Blaylock D.D. on April 22, 2009 1) Quit arguing with people about the same old foolishness! -Respect their position and keep it moving! 2) Quit telling people your secrets when you know they are not going to keep them! -And if you keep telling them, then quit getting mad when they tell your secrets! 3) Quit trying to pull people on your journey who don't want to travel with you! -Either they believe in you and value you ...or they don't! 4) Quit complaining about things you can't and won't change! -I am not working on being a size 6 or a model...so instead of complaining about the weight charts, I negotiated with my doctor for a "comfortable weight for me." Forget the charts! I created my own "healthy weight!" 5) Quit gossiping about other people! -Minding our own business should be a full time job! 6) Quit blaming each other for things that in the big picture aren't going to matter 3 weeks from now! -Talk solutions...and then implement them! 7) Quit eating things you know are not good for you! -If you can't quit...eat smaller portions! (I know...this is hard for me too!) 8) Quit buying things when we know we can't afford them! -If you don't have self control, then quit going to the stores! -Quit charging things, especially when you don't NEED them! 9) Quit staying in unhealthy relationships! -It is not okay for people to verbally or physically abuse you! So quit lying to yourself! -It is not okay to stay in the marriage for the children! Ask them and they will tell you that they really would prefer to see you happy and that the misery you and your spouse/partner are living with is affecting them! 10) Quit letting family members rope you into the drama! -Start telling them you don't want to hear it! -Quit spreading the drama! -Quit calling other relatives and telling them about your cousin or aunt! Go back to #5 - minding your own business should be enough to keep you busy! 11) Quit trying to change people! IT DOESN"T WORK! -I am still working on this because I really see a world of possibilities for others and try to convince them to see and want differently for themselves! -Quit cussing people out when you know that they are just being the miserable and jealous people that they are! 12) Quit the job you hate! -Start pursuing your passion -HINT: find the job that fuels your passion before you quit! 13) Quit volunteering for things that you aren't getting any personal fulfillment from anymore! -Quit volunteering for things and then failing to follow through with your commitment! 14) Quit listening to the naysayers! -Quit watching the depressing news if you are going to live in the doom and gloom of it all! 15) Quit making excuses about why you are where you are or why you can't do what you want to do! 16) Quit waiting on others to give you the answers...and start finding the answers for yourself! If what you are doing isn't working for you...then quit it! -Quit settling and start making your dreams a reality! -Quit being afraid and START LIVING YOUR LIFE! CREATE THE LIFE YOU WANT! If you want something different than what you have had in the past...you must quit doing what you have done before and DO something different! JUST QUIT IT and START DOING something to create the experience you want! For future enlightenment, visit us at : http://thegoddessesblessinggoddesses.com If you enjoyed this article, Join HBCU CONNECT today for similar content and opportunities via email! |
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Very good advice.
Wednesday, April 22nd 2009 at 10:57AM |
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You're very welcome ! It's okay to not quit at telling me this ! LOL ! Wednesday, April 22nd 2009 at 11:02AM |
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Hi Dr. LaDonna just stop by to ask you to check out my new blog!!
Wednesday, April 22nd 2009 at 1:20PM |
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Great advice Doc!!! I will definitely pass this message along to my friends!!!
Wednesday, April 22nd 2009 at 1:47PM |
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Thanks "Dear Love Ones" ! You have all made ole Doc's day ! Lol ! Wednesday, April 22nd 2009 at 4:02PM |
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This is great...just what the Doctor ordered!!
Wednesday, April 22nd 2009 at 8:44PM |
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Enjoyed the reading the tips on quitting. I've done so COLD TURKEY! Congrats Doc, on another Great blog!
Thursday, April 23rd 2009 at 8:41AM |
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Great ! Now I'm hoping on seeing some improvements ! Lol ! Yaw come back now, hear ! Lol ! Thursday, April 23rd 2009 at 9:23AM |
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Thanks for sharing
Friday, April 24th 2009 at 5:04PM |
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You're very welcome ! Friday, April 24th 2009 at 5:18PM |
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hey, Sis - get OUTTA my head...lol:)-
Friday, April 24th 2009 at 7:14PM |
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What ! did I take up residency ? Lol ! It take a bad motor scooter to do that Goddess ! LoL ! Friday, April 24th 2009 at 8:17PM |
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God is Good! I couldn't have said it better myself. This is a Life-Skills Lesson.
Saturday, April 25th 2009 at 8:30AM |
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Yes Mam indeed ! Thanks for your comments, EVERYONE ! Wednesday, April 29th 2009 at 9:46AM |
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