Quick Search

Active Bloggers

Will Moss Will Moss
Hampton University class of 1995
HBCU CONNECT HBCU CONNECT
Central State University class of 1995
rickey johnson rickey johnson
Other College... class of
Reginald Culpepper Reginald Culpepper
Clark Atlanta University class of 1998
LaMarr Blackmon LaMarr Blackmon
Cal St Univ, Long Beach class of 1992
Randi Payton Randi Payton
University of the District of Columbia class of 1982
Joel Savage Joel Savage
class of 1993
Ray Oster Ray Oster
University of Houston class of 2002
PARALEE  MASSIE PARALEE MASSIE
Florida A&M University class of 2009

Tell Me What U think???

Tell Me What U think???
Posted By: MILLAREISHA DIXON on July 28, 2005

Wassup, so as u can all tell from picture that I am in the military. N-E ways when I first got deployed to Iraq In Feb I had a boyfrerind of 2 and half years.



When I first got here all was gravy...Then after about 3 months he started to act up....He went and traded his car in (keep in mind his car he had was gonna be paid off the begining of 06)...not that I had a big problem with that but it was stupid....So, I asked him how much his new car notes was and he said 20 dollars more than his old note which makes it 390...I guess that was aight....Our conversations, emails, letters became shorter...So, I decided that I wanted him out of my place because things werent going good and that wasnt something I needed to worry myself over when I already have enough stress on my brain about staying alive in this hell whole they call Iraq....So, I had my mom go and escort him out my place...But, when my mom went there I found out he wasnt paying the bills (the bill were in his name sooooo..) and that he was paying the bare minimum to keep the bills on, this is also when I found out that his car not was 479 vices the 390 he told me and that his car insurance went up to 287....So, the day before she put him out he gonna say that maybe we need to take a break...In other words he was saying I want to have my cake and eat it to while ur in Iraq...And of course I laughed and was like hell no...So, he left and took all his stuff except a little bit of stuff that he said couldnt fit in his car...so, my mom called him and told him she was gonna be in town for a week so, he had a few more days to come and get his stuff he never came...but he calls her about a week later and says he need to get something of his (not all his stuff just something)...so, my rental people lets him in and he gets exactly what he needs and nothing more...this has been done several times...Y not just take the rest of ur stuff from my place and call it quits???...Now he emails me often asking do I love him and exc....and I delete hi emails because I have nothing to say to him...So, I question myself so was I ur girlfreind or mom???...because when mama was there u acted right now that mama is out of town u act a fool...I'm just venting...Let me know what all yall think...Did I do the right thing or what???...and guys who respond tell me from a guys point of view what he was/is thinking???
If you enjoyed this article, Join HBCU CONNECT today for similar content and opportunities via email!
Comments
Please Login To Post Comments...
Email:
Password:

 
swantasha stokes
South Carolina State University class of 2008
Girl you definitely did the right thing, because i will be damned if a man is going to be staying in my house while im not home and not paying the bills even though they were in his name. I dont know what he was thinking, it just seems so stupid of him to do something like that. You be safe up there and dont let nothin here stress u or keep you from doing what you are doing. holla atcha girl ~swanny~
Friday, July 29th 2005 at 10:50AM
WILLIAM W. HEMMANS III
Florida A&M University class of 1995
The obvious Sis. I got the Dear Jody thing while in the military also. Once in TX and again in Germany. I borrowed a thousand dollars from the credit union, flew to FL to marry her because she wanted to so bad and missed and loved me after messing around on me while I was in basic training. She wanted me as she claimed to be the 1st one. When I came home to ask her to marry me, she had hickeys on her neck.
Long story, I just keep it short here.
16 yrs later she comes looking for me thinking I want her after all those years and now that she has been dogged out multiple times etc.
I commend you for sharing your story.
Blessings.
Saturday, October 22nd 2005 at 3:09AM
More From This Author
ME IN IRAQ
Latest Blogs
Keep butts out thee ER room during this US Intermission

Keep butts out thee ER room during this US Intermission

Who: Everybody forgot those thoughts of UbeR Get your grill fired up and cook something festivE Let me see who can wear thee most layerS ...more
How May I Help You NC • 47 Views • January 25th, 2026
JUNIQUES OFFERS SHARE THE REVENUE AD STREAMING SERVICE FOR SMALL BUSINESS

JUNIQUES OFFERS SHARE THE REVENUE AD STREAMING SERVICE FOR SMALL BUSINESS

Visit: http://JuniquesAdService.com Juniques Ad Service is proud to introduce its Share The Revenue Streaming Ad Service, a breakthrough promotional solution designed specifically for micro and s ...more
rickey johnson • 94 Views • January 25th, 2026
ATTEND  THE I AM AMERICA AWARDS EVENT STREAMING LIVE ON BRIONOW.ONLINE.COM

ATTEND THE I AM AMERICA AWARDS EVENT STREAMING LIVE ON BRIONOW.ONLINE.COM

HTTPS://IAMAWARDS.ORG About The I Am Awards A celebration of excellence, resilience, and the extraordinary contributions of minority communities to America's story. Our Mission The I Am Awards ...more
rickey johnson • 56 Views • January 25th, 2026
Family Guy - Stewie Mom Mum Mommy

Family Guy - Stewie Mom Mum Mommy

The adventures of an eccentric family living in New England. FOX • 1999 • Animation • TV-14 https://www.fox.com/detail/series/SER000854XOPZ/family-guy ...more
How May I Help You NC • 50 Views • January 25th, 2026
CA$E in Miami Q&A

CA$E in Miami Q&A

Hope y’all enjoyed our long azz podcast session lol Add some suggestions for videos for us or questions for the next Q&A in the comments! Follow my friends: Stevi: https://www.instagram.... Cr ...more
How May I Help You NC • 60 Views • January 24th, 2026
Popular Blogs
Divorce in America in 2009 – What’s love got to do, got to do with it?

Divorce in America in 2009 – What’s love got to do, got to do with it?

Join Brother Marcus and the cast and the crew of the Brother Marcus Show live this Sunday evening on February 1, 2009 @ 8:00 p.m. for another hot topic in our community! “Divorce in America in 200 ...more
Brother Marcus! • 70,793,389 Views • January 27th, 2009
VISINE ALERT!!!

VISINE ALERT!!!

Seemingly innocent medication such as Visine eyedrops are used by people to concoct a mixture with similar effects as a date-rape drug. When mixed with alcohol and taken orally, the eyedrops can l ...more
Siebra Muhammad • 118,030 Views • May 23rd, 2009

"Chain Hang Low" check out the real meaning of the Lyrics!

Recently there is a new artist out of Saint Louis that goes by the name JIBBS. Jibbs debut single "Chain hang low" has a history that most people are not aware of. The particular nursery rhyme that th ...more
Tyhesha Judge-Fogle • 74,151 Views • November 9th, 2006
HBCU Marketplace Gifts: Divine 9 Premium Fraternity / Sorority Playing Cards

HBCU Marketplace Gifts: Divine 9 Premium Fraternity / Sorority Playing Cards

Vendor: Charles Jones Item Price: $20.00 Price Includes Shipping: Yes - Shipping Included Item Description: Pantheon Series - Divine 9 - Premium Playing Cards (choose Gold Series or Silve ...more
How May I Help You NC • 61,342 Views • December 2nd, 2018
Black College Student Sentenced to 12 Years in Prison for Kissing a White Girl

Black College Student Sentenced to 12 Years in Prison for Kissing a White Girl

Albert N. Wilson, a former University of Kansas student, has been sentenced to 12 years in prison and a lifetime of probation after being convicted by an all-white jury of raping a white teen girl. Bu ...more
Will Moss • 54,244 Views • June 4th, 2020
Please Give Us a Like on Facebook!