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Long distance relationships and drama

Posted By: Chasaty Lanier on August 02, 2005


This will be my first year in college, Grambling State University and my boyfriends second year at Southern University. Last year was hard without him, he went out all the time, we barely talked, and when we did he said he was busy and he will call me back. So do you think I need to break it off? or do him the same way he did me?
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Brittany Norris
Southern University class of 2008
have fun its your first year in college...i went thru the same thing and i go to SOUTHERN so i know how the boys are out there. I was also in a long distance relationship,and it was hard because your always wondering what the other person is doing..I say give him a chance see how he acts this semester and if he keeps on putting u on hold and the parties first. leave him alone. because you'll only get hurt. TRUST is a MUST in a relationship if there isnt ne trust there's no relationship
Wednesday, August 3rd 2005 at 1:37AM
Ebonie Hubbard
Grambling State University class of 2008
gyrl leave ! first off your to young. second long distance relationships dont work point blank. it could but both people would have to me deticated more so away than when their together b ecause the distance puts such a strain on the relationship. That how me and my girl broke up. It was fine when she was here and then she left last summer and went to Costa Rica for the summer. We stayed together but when she got back it was way different because we both experienced something that the other did not. We tried to work it out but the truth is we should have let it go when she left. it would have saved us so much drama and heart ache in the long run. there are other guys at grambling who you'll be able to build with. dont waste your time if hes not willing to waste his.!
Thursday, August 4th 2005 at 3:09PM
Hey girl i know how you feel i'm kinda in a sittuation like that right now. It's so hard beacuse i care a lot about him and i don't won't to cut him off. But always remember you have to love someone who will love you back. It's A TWO WAY STREET!!!! Holla at me girl when you find time. I will be attending Grambling next fall and I'm always up for meeting new people. Talk 2 ya lata girl.
Wednesday, August 10th 2005 at 3:58PM
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