Fellas, have you ever made your girl cry?
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Posted By: George Patterson on August 07, 2005 Tonight me and my girl had this discussion about me going to college and sex and all that. She wants to wait for the dumbest reason. i wouldn't care and i would completely understand if she wanted to wait becuz she wants to wait for marriage, or if her mom didnt want her to, but non of those are the case. She wants to wait becuz she thinks im too big. 4 real i was buggin 4 a while like usually that would make girls wanna have sex with me. i guess i can see her point since it would be her first time but still, i've been with her for a year and about 4 or 5 months now and swear my stick is about to commit suicide or somethin. She's always talkin bout how i never worry about what i want to do or how i feel, and i truly do put her first. But what i wanna do is have sex, but everytime i mention it she says im pressurin her so whats the point of worryin bout what i wanna do. Today though im kinda mad. She's not the type to cry a lot but today she called me back after our discussion and she was cryin so bad. She said she was worried that ima cheat on her in college and she felt like i was pressurin her. 4 real ima sensitive guy in my opinion and ususally when she cries or wateva i kn wat to say but today i didn't know what to say. i felt so bad. i've made her cry b4 but this was different. i felt like all the guys i claim im not but after today i feel like it. I wish i wouldn't of said nothing about it but im tryin to do something with someone i love. but i dunno, i give up now. If you enjoyed this article, Join HBCU CONNECT today for similar content and opportunities via email! |
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George Patterson
From Pittsburgh, PA North Carolina A&T State University class of 2009 Member Since July 2005 |
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Yeah man, You want want the s*x so bad that you dont even know you are puting pressure on her!!! First and foremost I think I seen your last blog she is Only going to the 11th grade thats like a little girl and she just might not be mature enough to handle it she is still young man, So give her some time!!
Sunday, August 7th 2005 at 1:27PM |
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i can understand your point about the fact that her reasoning is stupid. i mean yeah, it may hurt a lil more than it would w/ someone smaller, but like what else is she gonna do- go practice on someone smaller and then come back to you?? no!! so like if she's gonna say some stuff like that she needs to come up with some kind of plan of attack. she may just be using that as an excuse because she doesn't want to admit the fact that she's just scared to have s*x period, but regardless, if you guys are gonna stay together, you have to come up with some type of solution. call her and appologize for the way you came at her about it, and tell her that you love her. then after she sounds better, ask her if you guys can sit down and have a mature conversation about all of this and come up with some type of solution so that you don't have to worry about it or deal with it anymore. but remember, be sensitive. good luck!!
Sunday, August 7th 2005 at 1:28PM |
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Losing your virginity is a big thing, i mean its something serious for women well its suppose to be, I think she is just giving you an excuse but only because she doesn't have anything else to say i mean like she's really not ready to lose herself in your love yet, Alot of things come along with losing your virginity the pain and risks and stuff like that i could see why she would make up an excuse, I mean i know what she's going through because i too am a virgin and im kinda nervous about doing the do lol anyway I mean if you really feel for her then you'll wait i mean this is something big for her, she wants to share her heart body and soul with you but she's just not ready yet. Give her some time. In the mean time you might want to find something to keep you busy, when i say something i mean something not someone. Im out Shonda Sunday, August 7th 2005 at 8:41PM |
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WellI feel that you are pressuring her in some form because yes I knwo she's afraid that you are goin to go off and have s*x with someone else because you're too anxious.. Tru her first reason was ridiculously outrageous but I think she just wants to wait. And if you are in love with her like that you should wait 2. I mean aint no rush in having s*x.. Really its not... I mean sure the pleasure I mean but in the long run if you aint wit that person on a long term basis it kind of defeats the purpose. You don't wanna be like ok I had s*x and .. thats it.. But shawty.. SLOW DOWN.. CALM UR HORMONES.. you were born with it like maybelinne it aitn goin no where LOL TAKE CARE. Sunday, August 7th 2005 at 8:59PM |
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