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Friends w/ Benefits!

Friends w/ Benefits!
Posted By: Brittany Payne on September 01, 2005


What is it called when you are having sex with a good friend of yours, but want to remain only friends? Is that truly a friendship? Are both of you are just using each other for sex if you don't want to take it past friends and be intimate on both levels? Is "using" the correct term to describe this or is this a way of expressing your true feelings?
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Alexandria Jackson
Alabama A&M University class of 2008
s*x buddies. it is possible for a male and female to be friends unless one likes the other or they have s*x. if you have s*x and than say we are just friends all you are doing is lying to yourself. If both of yall agree to what yall are doing your not using each other, i mean your both get what you want and satisfying a need.
Thursday, September 1st 2005 at 3:34PM
Dasha Hampton
Tennessee State University class of 2007
I believe there is a such thing as friends with benefits the thing that distinguishes it from all other things is if you ask yourself this question "if you seen him/her with a significant other will you be hurt and still have the same level of friendship" if the answer is no to the first and yes to the other then you are really "friends with benefits" if you answered it any other way then you need to rethink what you are doin'. Just always remember there is too much d**k in the world for you to mess up a good friendship.
Thursday, September 1st 2005 at 6:20PM
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