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Why Cheat???

Why Cheat???
Posted By: Jasmine Neal on September 08, 2005


Okay........... fellas can you please help me out on this one........ Why do Most men cheat not all but most? Not saying that females dont cheat, but I mean this is something that I haven't grasped. If I'm giving you everything you need why is there a need to be with another female?? I dont understand.......
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Jasmine Neal
North Carolina Central University class of 2008
Thanx for replying to my post, yeah I feel you on that.
Thursday, September 8th 2005 at 12:08PM
TRINIDAD Tay
Norfolk State University class of 2007
no no no im a male so i could give u a better view point now i feel its because a man want to have his cake and eat it to plus being with one gurl to most men is a sign of weakness so to be with alot of women make u "THE MAN" you know what im saying plus some men are scared even if they don't tell u but men are scared of being hurt so if you have more than one women you got something to fall back on. u feel me shorty holla
Thursday, September 8th 2005 at 1:49PM
Marlon Anthony
Southern University class of 2007
My man pretty much hit it on the head. Guys have feelings too, and when they are hurt, i feel its worse than a female, because we are MEN, feelings arent supposed to get hurt. So they feel they need someone as a safety net, in case the main woman of your life hurts you. And another thing...Are you sure you are giving him everything he needs? Men, just like women, have alot of small needs. It may not be s*xually, but it just as well may be. Talk to him, and really have an in-depth convo about things he would like for you to do. If you want to be the person for him, then you will do them no questions asked. And on the flip side of that same token, If he wants to be the man for you, he will do whatever he has to to assure that you are 100% satisfied with him and only him. Have that convo, and know that it goes both ways, Just as you have many needs, so does he. And if he wont answer to yours then leave him, dont just not fulfill his needs, cuz then he will cheat
Thursday, September 8th 2005 at 3:20PM
Jasmine Neal
North Carolina Central University class of 2008
Thanx......... I really appreciate yall responding to my post:)
Thursday, September 8th 2005 at 3:53PM
Daniel Moss
President at HBCU Connect, LLC
There can be a million reasons to make a person lose interest in a relationship, but cheating - itself, is lying - period. Why do people lie? In almost every case, it is out of selfishness. Some tend to say that they lie to spare another person's feelings, etc... but when examined, the lie is almost always told so they can have their cake and eat it too. A lie is MEANT to deceive. Soooo, people cheat in an effort to deceive - period. Also, in order to have cheated, there has to have been an arrangement in the first place. What was the arrangement, and how was it broken? Be sure that you are on the same page with ole dude, because you two might view cheating differently. ;-) If your personality is even half as sweet as you in that A&W t-shirt then he's crazy! ;-)
Tuesday, September 20th 2005 at 8:37AM
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