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Tears

Tears
Posted By: Samantha Watson on October 04, 2005


A little boy asked his mother, "Why are you crying?" "Because I'm a woman," she told him.

"I don't understand," he said. His Mom just hugged him and said, "And you never will."

Later the little boy asked his father, "Why does mother seem to cry for no reason?"

"All women cry for no reason," was all his dad could say.

The little boy grew up and became a man, still wondering why women cry.

Finally he put in a call to God. When God got on the phone, he asked, "God, why do women cry so easily?"

God said:

"When I made the woman she had to be special.

I made her shoulders strong enough to carry the weight of the world,

yet gentle enough to give comfort.

I gave her an inner strength to endure childbirth and the rejection that many times comes from her children.



I gave her a hardness that allows her to keep going when everyone else gives up, and take care of her family through sickness and fatigue without complaining.

I gave her the sensitivity to love her children under any and all circumstances, even when her child has hurt her very badly.

I gave her strength to carry he! r husband through his faults and fashioned her from his rib to protect his heart.

I gave her wisdom to know that a good husband never hurts his wife, but sometimes tests her strengths and her resolve to stand beside him unfalteringly.

And finally, I gave her a tear to shed. This is hers exclusively to use whenever it is needed."

"You see my son," said God, "the beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair.

The beauty of a woman must be seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart - the place where love resides."

I like this..but I'm not sure if I totally agree with the whole "tear being hers exclusively" thing...
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but are we saying..guys can't have tears or that them crying is stealing something from us..that having emotions is "taking" from woman what is 'exclusively her's'??
Wednesday, October 5th 2005 at 12:20AM
there's no reason for men to cry just to do it. we go through our share of hardships but i can honestly say women get the worst of anything. so i agree with this.
Wednesday, October 5th 2005 at 2:27PM
Shelia Bowers
Southern University class of 2008
I like this a lot. I do agree because I feel as if women do actually shed more tears than men; not that men shouldn't or don't cry, but women do it more....Just my opinion.
Friday, October 7th 2005 at 5:28PM
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