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Superstar Black Women

Superstar Black Women
Posted By: Kedric McKennon on December 05, 2005


*as written by kevin chappell*

What would happen if we treated the lady in our life like a superstar? What if
we were her biggest fan, her biggest supporter? What if we let go of our
inhibitions and macho pretends and displayed a love for her that knew no
bounds, exhibited a shamelss passion, zeal and enthusiasm for her that couldnt be
questioned?

What if we screamed with unbridled joy everytime she walked into the room? (Sike)
just kidding lol but really, when u think about it, could it be that many of the
heartaches and headaches that we encounter in our relationships are a direct
result of our lack of regard for our lady? Indeed some of us are guilty of
treating our significant other like our"insignificant" other treating the love
of our life as if she was, well, just another lady.



We do this, even though
inside we know she is a good woman.instead of considering ourselves fortunate to
have her, too often we have the "she's lucky to have me" mentality, a twisted view
of relationships that is held by many brothers. A view that prevents us from
opening up, and prevents us from living and loving at the level that we are
capable of. Relationships are all about give and take, care and concern, treating
a lady like a superstar starts with treating her with respect, caring about her
well being and happiness showing her that she matters, it means being faithful to
her, honest with her, being there for her.
It means going that extra mile to show her ur thinking about her. It is said that
women are the great reciprocators. The way u treat them is the way u will be
treated in return...

*and Vice Versa*
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Cortnie Travers
Southern University class of 2009
youre only speaking the truth and it needs to be heard (well read).
Monday, December 5th 2005 at 2:31AM
Amecia Nichell
South Carolina State University class of 2009
good message, make sure you pass it on to all of the men- a few of them may need to hear it more than once.
Monday, December 5th 2005 at 5:56PM
Ah they was sweet now if every man read this it probably would stop some of the heartache and headache
Tuesday, December 13th 2005 at 3:39PM
Joyce Brayboy
Media relations specialist at U.S. Army Research Laboratory
Superstar Black Woman...now what would happen if, if by chance we took the lead and.. treated ourselves that way? That's where the real issue lies...You guys can't take the heat for that one.
Tuesday, July 10th 2007 at 12:25AM
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