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If u Were n My Shoes....

If u Were n My Shoes....
Posted By: Amanda Garrison on January 11, 2006

Me and my boyfriend have just gotten back 2gether after a 3month break frm our former seperation. we were on good terms but just wasn't 2gether...i took it as seein where we wanted 2 b...we've gotten back 2gether like two weeks ago but things werent the same.... I found out yesterday dat during our seperation he got sum gurl pregnant and dey bout 2 move n together...and he wants 2 stay wit me. wat do u think I should do? I mean we both did our thing but he da one who got caught up...me personally ..im leaning towards breaking up..but i wanted sum1 else opinion on the situation first....
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Tera Slone
Texas Southern University class of 2008
If you two love each other and you're willing to take on the responsibility of being with someone else's "baby daddy" then go ahead. People make mistakes but you have to ask yourself if you're ready to deal with a bigger issue in your relationship
Thursday, January 12th 2006 at 10:23AM
If he is about to move in with the other girl, then the decision is made. Move on Amanda. There are bigger and better things out there.

Mama Mo
Thursday, January 12th 2006 at 1:44PM
Trenee Burrage
Fisk University class of 2010
Girl I feel you. First off I want to say do what's in your heart. That's the only thing that makes something feel right on the inside. Now if I were in your situation, which I have been before I would explain to him how I felt. You young girl live your life. You don't want to be playing "STEPMOMMA" To some other females baby. Then you got to think of the BABY MAMA DRAMA! I don;t know any chick who ahs a baby by somebody, lives with him, and is okay with him "having a girl". That's crazy because I wouldn't be having it. Ask yourself what's worth it in this situation. Write a pro and con list pros being the good things about it and the cons being the bad things about it. If the cons outweigh the pros then do what you gotta do girl. With that being said always do what your heart tells you. Holla!
Thursday, January 12th 2006 at 4:18PM
Buerkie Klokpah
Xavier University of Louisiana class of 2009
girl! i dont even know what i would do in that situation. long distance relationships are already hard because im steady trying to stay committed in my own so i feel ur pain but thats alot on ur plate! the best thing i would rely to you is maybe ur heart aint always the way to go. we can alwasy say that and you're heart could be saying you luv him and all that but is it really enuff at this point? he wasn't considering that when he did what he did, right??? so make the decision based on the fact of the future. if it aint no good, it aint no good. and if it walk like a dog and act like a dog, he a dog. holla back and lemme know what u came up wit
Saturday, January 21st 2006 at 1:50PM
WILLIAM W. HEMMANS III
Florida A&M University class of 1995
As stated already Sis, moving in together?
Is that the best You can do and there is a thing as common sense respectfully.

I would not want a girl that is pregnant and living with the one who impregnated her, so they had s*x and a baby is made and You think nothing won't go on? Or they are not comfortable being around each other naked or etc.etc.etc.
Would he do the same for You?

Also spiritually, they are married, anyone You sleep with spirits are knit together and who does right for the baby by God?
So he shares the both of You, pie and cake to and the baby that should and needs all his time, You dwell to take up some of that?
You think about it.
Respectfully, You did ask and I'm a straight up sort of guy.
And women say there is a shortage of Men?
I bet a good one is around You and You bypass...
But of course all Men are dogs huh?...
Again I mean no bad Sis, I just care...
Thursday, April 6th 2006 at 4:04PM
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