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SHAKE HIM OFF!

SHAKE HIM OFF!
Posted By: Sarah Shannon on January 12, 2006


hey everyone!! It's a new year and I feel Great!! It's just one little problem that i need answers to. How do you get over a person who you though you where in love with. A person who played mind games and new they had you?? Well anywho slowly but surely I am getting over him. But the memories are just taking me a minute to get rid off. I mean every song that comes on the radio remind me off what we use to have and it bothers me sometime. I'm in a new relation with someone and that person is very special. I just don't want to hurt them, because of the old feelings for someone stupid. What do I do??
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Trenee Burrage
Fisk University class of 2010
First let me say to always do what your heart tells you to do because it's the only way regret wont take hold of you. But to answer your problem. I would say that maybe your special person that you're dealing with now isn't so special. Maybe he's just special now because you're with him, but in all actuality he's really just the rebound guy believe it or not. Sometimes we think we see, what we really don't. To get "RID" of the memories, keep yourself occupied. Not necessarily with another mate but try some new activities that you've never done before. So your mind will be on something new and exciting instead of something usual and boring. Like I always say though, It's better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all girlfrined. Hope I was some help. Holla!
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