Fathers Are Important to the Learning of Children
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Posted By: William Jackson on February 26, 2016 Fathers Are Important to the Learning of Children by William Jackson, M.Ed. Edward Waters College – Jacksonville, Florida William.jackson@ewc.edu Real Talk Real Change “Who’s Da Man!!?” #RTRCVII Continuation of “Who’s Da Man” the roles and responsibilities of man and fathers. This discussion needs to continue. Panelists on Real Talk Real Change VII Crystal Smith Lewis - https://www.facebook.com/crystal.s.lewis.1... Alvin King - https://www.facebook.com/awking1?hc_locati... Reylius Wonderfulcounselor https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=10... Andrew Tate III - https://www.facebook.com/atateiii I have written previously about the importance of fathers being involved in the learning of their children, the consequences are seen in the behaviors of students that are directly affected because too many fathers are not taking responsibility for their children and seem not to care or even love their children. The academic records, behavior charts, suspension records and juvenile justice data shows that the absence of caring and loving fathers is influential and contributory to these behaviors. The physical and heart breaking scenes are when students in classes are crying because they have not seen their fathers for days or weeks. When boys lash out violently in school or in their communities because they think their fathers don’t love them, because they do not interact with the man they think will be there to teach them how to be a man and protect them. Girls that run to man after man looking for that missing piece of safety, security and love that only a father can provide. These are real issues faced by children, experiencing when fathers leave their families either because of divorce or other issues and leave behind their children. Children need their fathers in their lives for social, academic, emotional and psychological stability and security. The 2015 – 2016 school year is over 100 days, several report cards have already been distributed, there is little to none statistical evidence with school districts that shows if the absence of fathers affects school success for children, but report cards and assessment data shows there is a gap in learning and success. Fathers are very important in helping to raise children and laying a foundation for success in life. "The influence of a father’s involvement on academic achievement extends into adolescence and adulthood. Numerous studies find that an active and nurturing style of fathering is associated with better verbal skills, intellectual functioning, and academic achievement among adolescents." Fathers and Their Impact on Children’s Well-being, Jeffrey Rosenberg and W. Bradford Wilcox 2006 “Fathers can and do change the world one child at a time.” William Jackson, M.Edu. Suggestions learned from a father, educator, mentor and community activist to my brothers that are fathers and learning to be better and to help women understand why their children need their fathers, so long as their fathers are positive, involved and transformative in their actions and intentions. Real Talk Real Change VII was a moment that should be a movement in Jacksonville and make transformative change in our community. https://www.facebook.com/events/1454838178... 1. Fathers respect your child’s mother, you and she created the best part of both of you. 2. Fathers respect your child’s teacher(s) through your actions and words: One way to support education is to model respect for teachers and administrators. 3. Fathers spend time in the school mentoring, modeling and even attending field trips. Fathers can spend lunch time and even study time with children at school. 4. Fathers listen to teachers not talk at them, education is a team effort. Fathers must trust teachers to tell them the truth about their children even if the truth hurts or challenges making changes to discipline. 5. Fathers discipline with Love, fathers must have love in their hearts and minds and discipline fairly and with love. 6. Fathers must be willing to be role models and mentors. Fathers are the first role models, even when they don’t think kids are watching. Actions speak louder than words. 7. Fathers are Teachers. A father teaches by his actions not always by his words. Fathers can establish the foundation for future success if they set high expectations that are reasonable and obtainable. 8. Fathers should share meals, breaking bread gives children a time to bond with their fathers. To see them at a time where there is a common interest. 9. Fathers Read to their Children. No matter the fathers reading level father and children can learn together. Fathers can create a learning / reading environment showing the importance of reading and comprehension. 10. Fathers Show Affection. Fathers cannot afford to be “hard” and unemotional, they must show emotions because their children will learn from them. Fathers should show their children love and compassion because in the world this helps develop our humanity and build community. 11. Fathers need a closer relationship with their spirit and souls. This influences their children for inner reflection and growth. Reading the bible shows wisdom not weakness, God made man first for a reason. 12. Fathers Job is Never Done Fathers must always be involved and contributory. Contributions are not just monetary, but the foundations of love, trust, honesty, compassion, sympathy, respect and being human beings. Fathers must be available in good times and bad, to share their wisdom and common sense. Imagine a world where all fathers are engaged and active……….. Sadly in the 20th century the father’s role has been declining, to the point of blatant disrespect and denial of his ability to not just provide, but contribute to his family and his community. "A father’s influence was increasingly seen as minor, even negligible, his importance is being defined by how well he provided for the family not with his wisdom and spirituality." Ditta M. Oliker Ph.D. Ditta M. Oliker Ph.D. "The Long Reach of Childhood" Fathers are important because if more fathers were actively involved in homes, society and with the education of their children most of the problems education experiences would be not there. The media is wrong in its depiction of Black fathers and fathers of color and culture, there are more doing the right thing than the wrong things. Links and Resources Fatherhood https://www.fatherhood.gov/ The Importance of Fathers https://www.childwelfare.gov/pubs/usermanu... The Importance of Fathers According to Science http://www.artofmanliness.com/2015/06/19/t... If you enjoyed this article, Join HBCU CONNECT today for similar content and opportunities via email! |
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William Jackson
Enigineering Educator, Duval County Public Schools South Carolina State University class of 1985 Member Since October 2008 |
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