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I gots a Question.....

I gots a Question.....
Posted By: Charnasta Watson on January 30, 2006


I recently discovered that I am not attracted to guys that don't know what they want to do in life. I know this may seem odd, but does it look like I'm being picky or just being smart. Too many times I've been into a guy that doesn't know what they want to do after high school. So I just wanted sum honest opinions on whether not I'm being judgemental.
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KORENE JONES
Howard University class of 2010
I also agree with Keisa. You are going to find your perfect someone oneday. I am the same way, I am not attracted to guys who have no clue what or who they want to be. Although, they may not be your type..relationship wise...it's always good to have friends.
Tuesday, January 31st 2006 at 8:36AM
Danielle Davenport
Alabama A&M University class of 2010
I think that u have every right to feel that way. You should'nt want to be with someone that doesn't have a plan for their future and who in the end will only bring you down in the process of "finding themselves". Stay strong ma and keep your head up and on the right track.
Tuesday, January 31st 2006 at 9:36AM
De Anna Jackson
Virginia State University class of 2010
Naw that aint picky...thatz real! I feel the same way, i want a brotha that knows what he wants and is willing to go afta it...not the " i dunno...i think ill work for a year to decide". I mean life to short to spend it with someone who is neva sure about theirself. I mean if you gonna be w/ them, he is supposed to have yo bac. N if he cant even make up his mind bout what he doin how can you depend on him!
Tuesday, January 31st 2006 at 6:50PM
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