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For my boys (girls too)

  For my boys (girls too)
Posted By: Lenora Magee-Howard on March 28, 2005


I need u guys' opinion. So there's this dude i've been talkin to for about two or three months but we never hooked up. He's real nice and he likes me and i learned to like him but i only saw him in person like two times. He's in school and i'm and school so frequently our schedules conflict leaving the weekends for the only time we can hook up.



Even though we hardly see eachother, dude calls me like everyday and i know girls don't mind gettin wit him cause he ain't ugly at all so i know either he really likes me or at least it seems like he does. Basically i don't really wanna talk to him anymore because other dudes are coming around now . I jus wanna know the easiest let him go? Should i be straight up or tell him i'm a lesbian? I playin about the lesbian part but i feel like i he might be mad and/or sad if i tell him its because i am startin to like other dudes...Yea i don't kno help me


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Derrick Whiting
Virginia State University class of 2009
what you need to do is invite him over to dinner, or take him out to dinner, but don't make it too romantic. you need to tell him y'all need to hve a talk. give it to him straight, don't beat around the bush, but be sincere about it. let him know that you still have feelings about him (if you do) and that you can still be friends( or not), but just be truthful with him and say you want to see other people, and you're too young to be shacked up. trust me i know how it is.
Tuesday, March 29th 2005 at 11:52AM
Kelley Jones
Alabama A&M University class of 2007
Just be real wit him.... but however u do tell him.... i think u should do it in person....seeing that yall dont see each other that much.....it still should be said in person....but at the same time..usually when u do start kickin it wit a certain person, that is when other people start coming ur way.. so first of all just make sure that is something u really want to do...after that...just let him know..straight up!
Tuesday, March 29th 2005 at 5:29PM
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