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What to do...What to do........

What to do...What to do........
Posted By: Ta'Nia White on March 29, 2005


I can't believe it...Graduation is getting so close! People weren't lying when they said that your senior year of high school goes by so quick...Pretty soon I'll be out there in the REAL WORLD..on my own..by myself. Damn that scares me to death. I'm not ready to be out on my own, I'm too much of a daddy's girl!

If I get into CAU, what am I gonna do about Kegan( My boyfriend)..I told him in the beginning of our relationship that this relationship was pretty much temporary...because all hish school relationships are temporary...but I didn't have the feelings back then that I do now. I love him alot, but I also don't want to start my freshman year of college with a boyfriend. Thats just a BIG NO-NO...
But I just can't break up with him and act like we were never together.



It's so confusing...I should've never gotten together with him becase I knew this would happen.Don't get me wrong I dont regret getting together with him because he is by far one of the best boyfriends that I've ever had! ::2 THUMBS UP:: But I'd hate to just have to leave him, which is what is gonna happen if I go off to college. It's just causing to much stress on me now..He's so sweet though, and I hate to make it seem like I just played with his emotions..because really and truly I never wanted our relationship to go this far because I knew that this COULD happen and now it has. I only started talking to him so that I could try something new and get my mind off of old relationship. And it worked but now my feelings are in it and I care about him so much.....I don't know what to do now.................. :/
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Makiva Renee' Van Buren
Alabama State University class of 2009
Girl, I know how you feel. i am in that same situation. I am going out of town for college but my boyfriend is staying here. I love him too. But we said if we were meant then something would happen after i returned from college. You really need to talk to him about the situation.
Tuesday, March 29th 2005 at 1:15PM
Aisha Jones
Clark Atlanta University class of 2011
girl let me tell you me and my man were in the same situation....he was a senior last yr and now hes in Morehouse and i wont be in CAU until the fall and when we first met i was like i didnt want to get into a relationship cuz i knew he was leaving but by some suprise we are still together today ....actually were engaged......Im not saying go and get engaged because you made it clear that you dont want to start college with a man, but be sure that you want to give him up cuz you only get a select few good men in your life( dont let a good one go.And if you think that this is the right decision to let him go then just tell him straight up that you know that its not going to work when your in college and you dont want to hurt himby cheating on him....Just make sure you think hard aout your chioce...Good Luck and im sendin much NYC and CAU love...Esha
Tuesday, March 29th 2005 at 10:27PM
Ta'Nia White
Clark Atlanta University class of 2009
Yeah
::blushes::
That was him..see things like that makes it so hard. I think that we'll stay together after highschool.I think that we have what It takes to survive a long distance relationship. Only time will tell, but I hope things work out for the best between us. If things don't we can always be friends :/
Wednesday, March 30th 2005 at 12:42AM
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