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Holidays!

Holidays!
Posted By: myrthau wright on February 14, 2006


I have a question but I believe I have the answer but I want y'all opinion.



If the so called person you are suppose to be dating doesn't suggest spending time with you on a holiday what does that mean?

If the so called person you are suppose to be dating doesn't call you back for about three hours on a holiday what does that mean?

If the so called person you are suppose to be dating has grown *** children but still needs time to spend with them what does that mean?

If the so called person you are suppose to be dating forgets about you periodically what does that mean?

If the so called person you are suppose to be dating never introduce you to any of his family members what does that mean?

But he wants to introduce you to their dad???

When you go out of your way to please him, you don't blame them for past relationships so you do everything the last relationship says you didnt! But no matter what you do it still don't send a signal! You start to wonder is there something honestly wrong with you!! Even though you know that you r one of the best people you ever met! Is there something inward that is attracting them from the outside?

I believe I know the answer but please let me know what you think?
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Jonathan Wright
Miles College class of 2010
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Wednesday, February 15th 2006 at 1:00AM
Tiara J
Grambling State University class of 2004
It means just what you said, the "so called person", maybe you see him more than what he sees you. So its best that you not waste too much time dweling over it all. find something New
Wednesday, February 15th 2006 at 1:28AM
WILLIAM W. HEMMANS III
Florida A&M University class of 1995
Yes pain is/can be a hard thing to deal with. I have written plenty of blogs on relationships, alluded to in my last blog and plan to coincidentally post new blogs about male/female relations.

Also I have been there. Many times what is so obvious even kids can answer to what full grown chronological adults deal with.
We are also all at where we are at. I know some senior citizens that asks those same questions and it is usually easier to answer when not in those shoes.
But many times the best answer can come from outside of oneself due to the person involved is too caught up.
Also there is scripture in the New Testament that talks about souls being knit, in other words only God can release. But one has to want it.

Yes You have answered Your own question, the irony is, is that many ask but continue to try anyway at the sacrifice of their self-esteem.
If You were to gain him back, would You not still be upset with him and let him know it?
I have hinted in blogs that many chase after the Bad Boy or Bad Girl thing and the Blessings that come by they ignore.
I have seen plenty of people blog on here about relationships and as I hinted in my last blog, many do not answer them, why, because they want to vent but not do anything about it. Action is action and accepting is accepting. Even if one does nothing about it, it does not count as moving forward does it.
Are You beautifully and wonderfully made? That is scripture You know. Maybe read Jeremiah 33:3,6 sometime. If so as I have stated before, God removes chaff before they can do much more various forms of damage even costing lives...
Ironically what God removes, many continue to go after.
Pain blinds but it is the choice of the person.
There is a thin line between love and compulsion.

I hope You learn, grow and receive what is for You.
Hey just my 2cents worth, but many times that does not matter even when a person asks right?
I can say much more but I end here.
Take care
William
Wednesday, February 15th 2006 at 12:36PM
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