Writing a Thesis in Half the Time When You Don’t Know Where to Start
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Posted By: How May I Help You NC on April 28, 2017 by Dora Farkas, PhD Does Writing a Thesis Have to Be Painful? “Writing a thesis is probably so stressful,” said the kind doctor at the emergency room, as he examined my elbows throbbing with pain. “You may be able to avoid surgery because you are young”, I heard him say, “but if I were you I would strongly consider it.” He diagnosed me with “tennis elbow,”a condition common among tennis and golf players due to the repetitive motions in these sports. However, it also affects people who use computers or work in the laboratory for extended periods of time. “That would be me,” I said. “I am a graduate students, writing a thesis, working 60-70 hours a week.” He nodded in sympathy. The doctor had seen enough grad students, and understood how much pressure I was experiencing. Since I was in so much pain, he injected cortisone into both of my elbows to reduce the inflammation. While the injections hurt, hearing the recommended course of treatment over the next few weeks (or months) was more painful. First, I had to stop working out and go to physical therapy instead. Second, I had to take off two weeks from work, and restrict my work hours afterwards. I was scheduled to present my research to our sponsors in a month. I could not imagine what PI was going to say when I told him that I could not work for two weeks. Would I lose funding from our sponsors, and be kicked out from grad school? I felt more stuck than ever before. I could not imagine how I would ever graduate with such limited work hours. But, what I learned during my time off from work literally took my breath away. It wasn’t the amount of work that led to my painful condition. I had been sabotaging my own progress, without realizing it, for years before my physical pain gave me a wake-up call. My physical pain was a result of working to the point of burnout for years, always feeling like my work wasn’t “good enough.” If I wanted to finish writing a thesis, I had to embrace and appreciate any progress I was making. I accepted that I would graduate on my own time, and it didn’t matter how many of my peers graduated before me. The idea of not beating myself up (when everyone else around me was beating themselves up), seemed heretic. If you keep beating yourself up, is it any wonder that eventually writing a thesis becomes a painful experience? But, the scariest part of writing a thesis is not that you need to let go of your expectations of being best. The really scary part is confronting everyday all the things you don’t understand about your thesis, and then writing anyway. Once you can do that (and I know how terrifying it feels), that’s when you will start to believe that despite everything you had to overcome until now, you WILL finish your thesis. https://finishyourthesis.com/ If you enjoyed this article, Join HBCU CONNECT today for similar content and opportunities via email! |
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