Whats a good man got to do.
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Posted By: James Brittian on May 13, 2006 Remember when women use to talk about how men were lairs, and dogs and some of them still say that til this day, but it just hit me that the tables have turned. In today's society women are the ones cheating and lying. And you know the scarying thing about it. They're better at it than men are. Now I ask myself this question all the time. How on earth did this happen? It's not totally the womens fault for becoming so cold.Yes we as men must take some of the blame. It seems as though it became a evolution for women to become this way from years and years of disrespect, however they are responsible for becoming this way because ultimately it was a decsion that they made. Now i'm not talking about all women, but most. I say this because there are still good women out there just like there are still good men out there.You know i'm starting to believe that some of the good men are being taking by the white and other ethinc's of women. Is it because we feel more appreciated by other types of women. Hum... something to think about, but to my good women out there, if you want a good man don't always expect him to have everything meaning, don't be materialistic. Learn how to be alternative. Just because a man gives you everything and drives you everywhere doesn't mean he's a good man, pimps do that!!. A good man can spoil you with love just as much a dog would who spoils you with material things. To the fellas who's looking for that special woman, Be patient she will come someday even if it takes break-ups, after break-ups, after break-up eventually she will come. I know it's hard, but always remember that you're a man and keep your head up. And if it gets damn near unbearable, just stay strong. And if you need to cry then cry in the presence of God for he shall get you through your storm. And out of that storm you shall find a flawless beautiful creation of God; not only on the outside, but on the inside as well and you will talk about the story of how you thought there were no good women in the world until you met her. Women I understand that you've been hurt many,many times before, but don't punish the good men for it. If you enjoyed this article, Join HBCU CONNECT today for similar content and opportunities via email! |
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James Brittian
From Talladega, AL Talladega College class of 2008 Member Since January 2006 |
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Man...I know exactly what you are talking about. I've had a relationship where the woman cheated on me, yet I'm still considered to be a lying, no good man. Wierd...especially when in every relationship I've remained faithfull 100%...
Saturday, May 13th 2006 at 10:22PM |
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WELL its good that you have a sense of who god is and keep praying because he will lead the right people in your path.
Sunday, May 14th 2006 at 11:35AM |
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A lot of good observations and advice for a young man. Keep up the good work!
Sunday, May 14th 2006 at 4:50PM |
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Good post-- I think you are so right when you say for people not to expect all of the "material" things to be there already. You grow and attain those things it doesn't happen instantly or overnight and when earned together it means more. Good advice.
Sunday, May 14th 2006 at 9:52PM |
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I really agree with u on that!!! Thanks for mention that though and I want to tell u that u have really helped me out and I conmend u for that.
Sunday, May 14th 2006 at 10:50PM |
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Well i'm not making any generalizations about any situation, I'm just speaking the facts and truth, and if what you say is true about women cheating then we as a whole need to work extra hard in getting ourselves together or man and woman relationships will never work.
Sunday, May 28th 2006 at 2:39PM |
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