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ima target
Posted By: Leslie White on May 29, 2006


since i went to prom like 3 weeks ago all these dudes i use to talk to or go wit have been at me. like most of em i wont give the time of day to cuz i know how they are and that they wont change. i feel that i shouldnt have to ask u to change or want u to change if we gon be together. i had a bbq for a grad party and all of em stop through. then my ex from a few blogs back came by. the night b4 graduation we was at a party n he was all ova me. i let him b round me cuz he was drunk n i didnt want nothin to happen to him. then the next mornin his bestfriend told me yea he said he still love u n he wanna b wit u. he was lookin for u all day. i just blew it off cuz he was drunk that night.



then his friend told me the other day yall need to get back together he want another chance. he been tellin me this a lot lately. i just think that this is all his friend doin but my ex called me the other day just questionin me n tryin to take me out for my birthday. im like if he dont tell me himself how he feel then im just gon ignore it and let him go for good. its like this past month all the males that i use to talk to all tryin to "j" back down on me. im thinkin this shound like a bet to me cuz most of em know each other or are kinda cool. im like i dont do friend groups. im feel in like a target cuz all these dudes is at me at the same time. im wonderin if its for an other reason than them actually like me.
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Darryl D. Smith
Grambling State University class of 2007
I'm going to tell you this...just be you! If you don't want to be with him, TELL HIM!!! It's better than having him thinkin that there's a chance...trust me...I know how that feels...

Also, enjoy it! Be glad that there's someone out there that is feelin you. That's a good thing. Just take your time, and pick the right guy. Pray on it and the right one will come for you...
Tuesday, May 30th 2006 at 2:08AM
WILLIAM W. HEMMANS III
Florida A&M University class of 1995
Hey wanted to add in my 2cents but what can a brutha say after the great comment of Mr. Darryl Smith.
Great You have standards for Yourself Sis, ain't nuthin wrong wit dat.
Take care.
Tuesday, May 30th 2006 at 3:52AM
Kellen Hunter
Central State University class of 2009
Ditto...................... But seriously Mr smith is right if u dont want to be with him tell him. Im not sayin that u stringin him along but u should just let him know how u feel.

I'll Holla!
Tuesday, May 30th 2006 at 7:41PM
ROBYN Jubilee
Morgan State University class of 2008
sweety, you're done with the high school life. Don't take steps backwards, move forward. Take this summer and do you. Don't worry about them, who should you date, who should you trust, sh!t like that. Do you because at the end of the summer you're going to be starting new somewhere esle, somewhere that doesn't involve them. Even if the dude really do like you, why get into a relationship knowing you're leaving in a short period of time anyway? You're young, be single and be free.
Monday, June 26th 2006 at 2:42PM
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