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Older man younger women

Older man younger women
Posted By: Cheryl Larkin on April 20, 2005


ok.....so what do you think of an older man dating a younger women? the ages are not that far off but maybe be like 10 to 15 years apart. both are legal but the man is married with a child. would you do it? Females..would you date an older man even if u knew he was married with a kid but he didn't care? Males...would you date a younger women knowing you have a lot more to lose? is it worth the risk? wat if some starts catching feelings faster then the other? wat to do then?.
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Jimmie Lee Gibson Jr.
Norfolk State University class of 2006
Anything more than a decade of an age difference may present a problem, but I don't see a problem with an older man dating a younger woman if both are legal and single. If Iwere the man in question, I couldn't date the younger woman if I were married and had a child. I would feel like I have to set the example and do the right thing and cheating on the kids mom is not that. If it's not working out, fine....move on. But the first relationship should end before a second begins. I mean think about it, would you trust a guy that dismissed his wife, child, and his responsibilites to them without a care? Those things would be just too much to put on the line. If one gets feelings faster than the other....I guess the other better put on their thinking cap real quick and decide what they want because it'd probably be trouble otherwise.
Wednesday, April 20th 2005 at 9:45AM
Francesca Awode
University of Maryland Eastern Shore class of 2007
there is nothing wrong with dating a older guy, if and only if he is single. If the man is married you need to just leave him alone, and if he has a kid, no no no. it's not worth it. Besides he made a vow to his wife and most importantly to God. you do not want GOD to hold you responsible for a broken marriage, not a good thing. And there is karmam, what goes around comes around.
Wednesday, April 20th 2005 at 2:30PM
Krystal Taylor
Hinds Community College class of 2009
Personally I could not date a man that is that much older than me. The oldes i have dated is a 4 year difference. I would absolutely not date a married man. I don't know about the next female but that is a complete turn-off for me. I have talked to guys with girlfriends before I won't lie about that but MARRIED, NO. If I got with a man only to find out later that he is married then I would leave him. I just constantly think "What if?" But if you can do that then more power to you, tha Lil' One couldn't do it.
Wednesday, April 20th 2005 at 3:36PM
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