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Pleasures of Me

Pleasures of Me
Posted By: Katrina Washington on December 11, 2006


Am I
suppose
to want to
be like that?

Ashamed
uncertain
confused
easily talked out
bout the things I want?

I know
what I want
how I want it
and how it is
suppose to be.



I refuse
to settle!

To settle for lies

To settle for fakiness

To settle for
lust me sometimes
and no love
the other times!

To settle for anything
less than I deserve!

I am not just
another on your list

Another name
to check off.

I know
I deserve
everything I want!

I know I deserve
my happiness
my respect.

I know I deserve
to be successful
and to be
loved.

There is no denyin me
from this!
Because I know it's mine
to have and cherish!

You may think
you a
balla
playa
or wateva

But you'll neva get to enjoy...

This or that
There or here
Near or far
Up and down
All around
The pleasures of me!
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Joyce Brayboy
Media relations specialist at U.S. Army Research Laboratory
You got that right, Sistah! :) It took some of us 30 years to learn that one, so live it and keep doing what you do!
Tuesday, December 12th 2006 at 10:18PM
Shenicka McCollum
North Carolina A&T State University class of 2011
AMEN!!.. every female needs to read this and understand WE NEED TO KNOW WHAT WE WANT! some settle for the PLAYA or whateva but it don't have to be that way!!
Wednesday, December 13th 2006 at 8:27AM
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