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Do You Qualify?

Do You Qualify?
Posted By: Soncel'ra Bankston on April 10, 2007






Do You Qualify?Do you qualify to be the man I need you to be? Will you be able to recognize the things you will you need to see? Will you be able to understand, that I'm a good woman and in my life I need a good man? Do you qualify? Do you qualify to fertilize my unproduced seeds? Can you fulfill, as I can, all of our needs? Can you put me in my place if you see I am slippin'? Can you talk to me, wholeheartedly, not constantly trippin?? Do you qualify? Do you qualify to be called all mine? Can you leave the other women and temptations behind? Can you come to me with your problems and not wait until it's too late? Can you stand up and admit if you made a mistake? Do you qualify? Do you qualify to be the honest ebony man I would want you to be? Would you be able to look me in my eyes and admit your feelings to me? Would you take me in your arms and make love to me all night long? Can you be sensitive and still be strong? Do you qualify? Do you qualify to be my friend as well as my lover? Can you put our love before any other? Can you cherish me as if I were Diamonds & Gold? Can you make me feel like I'm the last woman you'll ever hold? Do you qualify? Do you qualify to be called a GOD fearing man? If I have doubts, can you reassure me and understand? Can your love intoxicate me as if I were High? To be in my life, I need to know, DO YOU QUALIFY?
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Traycie L. Tonge
Hampton University class of 1997
I appreciate the honesty of a black woman who is waiting to be found by the black man who qualifies to be in her life. Much respect.
Wednesday, April 11th 2007 at 6:25PM
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