Is it OK if a woman makes more money than her man?
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Posted By: M Smith on July 26, 2007 To all of my successful sisters: are you cool with making more money than your man? If you enjoyed this article, Join HBCU CONNECT today for similar content and opportunities via email! |
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As a developing woman, I would say yes. Oprah Winfrey, one of the richest and most hard-working individual in society today proves that. Although some men view this situation as belittling their manhood, I would say more power to women. Of course it is ok for a woman to make more money than her man. The question is when will some men start accepting this statement as a fact and become comfortable with this situation.
Friday, July 27th 2007 at 10:30PM |
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Honestly, I've had a past problem with that and the type of person that I am, I mean well in saying, I want to make the most money. Just keeping it real and I know for a fact I'm not the only one that thinks like this. This blog would not be adequate without someone taking the other position and I did vote Yes it is okay for Women to make more money. This is not about chauvenism with me by the way if I spelled that word right, Lol!
Wednesday, August 15th 2007 at 3:22PM |
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O course as long as the woman remains morally grounded and takes care of the essential needs for herself and her family (if she has one) which keeps them stable and secure.
Wednesday, August 15th 2007 at 7:38PM |
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I strongly feel that it is o.k. for a woman to make more than her man, as long as she is respecting the man she's with. Never let the money take her to a different level. Always treat him in a loving way and let him know that "What's your's is mine and what's mine is yours" everything will be o.k. I'am living in that situation a little right now. The difference for us is that we take good care of each other.
Friday, August 24th 2007 at 2:55AM |
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I guess I'm old fashion, I feel the man should make the most money. However, nowadays, things are different, with women moving up the career ladder. Sisters are getting it for themselves. Men are feeling left out and relationships are breaking up more than ever. I like nice things and I'm not afraid to work hard to get them. I feel couples should work together as a team and both persons opinions should be respected. When the man makes to most money their is a natural balance. When the woman makes more, does she feel like she has the upper hand over the man and he has to take the back seat. Even if this isn't verbally expressed it is understood. He has moved out of his place and now he shares that place.
Saturday, August 25th 2007 at 5:37PM |
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It really shouldn't matter which makes the most if they are down for one another, However if by chance she does it should be just fine as long as she doesn't use it against him and he doesnt' feel less than because of.
Sunday, August 26th 2007 at 1:16AM |
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There is too much focus on who makes what, if its for the family well being it doesn't matter. We should be proud of our husband and or wife for doing whatever it takes to have a comfortable life. Its a team effort right?
Sunday, August 26th 2007 at 6:11AM |
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Women has to be careful with that, because they shoul know thier man and what kind of person he is. Some men of "black" race don't want thier blackwomen to have that. If that man is brought in a family history where their mother was paid less for her job and the father was bring home the bacon. Then that may have an effect on that relationship. To me, it's important to know your man's family background of what kind of envirnment he is use too. Yell' they will tell you that they don't have a problem with that but beware, that can be a front. Most men will go along with anything aspecting you to beleive what ever they say, but rember their family household from up-bring plays has a strong total on that person. Sunday, August 26th 2007 at 6:29PM |
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Women has to be careful with that, because they shoul know thier man and what kind of person he is. Some men of "black" race don't want thier blackwomen to have that. If that man is brought in a family history where their mother was paid less for her job and the father was bring home the bacon. Then that may have an effect on that relationship. To me, it's important to know your man's family background of what kind of envirnment he is use too. Yell' they will tell you that they don't have a problem with that but beware, that can be a front. Most men will go along with anything aspecting you to beleive what ever they say, but rember their family household from up-bring plays has a strong total on that person. Sunday, August 26th 2007 at 6:30PM |
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Women has to be careful with that, because they shoul know thier man and what kind of person he is. Some men of "black" race don't want thier blackwomen to have that. If that man is brought in a family history where their mother was paid less for her job and the father was bring home the bacon. Then that may have an effect on that relationship. To me, it's important to know your man's family background of what kind of enviornment he is use too. Yell' they will tell you that they don't have a problem with that but beware, that can be a front. Most men will go along with anything aspecting you to beleive what ever they say, but rember their family household from up-bring, plays and has a strong total on that person. Sunday, August 26th 2007 at 6:33PM |
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Remember a man is a jank of all trends but a master of none,exluding the almighty.So a woman should never think of getting more money than a man coz in most cases she may decide to go astry that is to say geyong the man's control.''For God and My Country''.
Tuesday, August 28th 2007 at 12:21PM |
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YES, it is OK...but is it a good idea to practice...or should these traditional roles for the male to provide be a continuing challenge for our Black Men, who statistically have failed...should we just stop challenging us, men, and have our women take the lead for a chance? Just a thought. Tuesday, September 4th 2007 at 10:32AM |
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Is it okay...I thought a l=relationship was about supporting and encouraging each other to do their best. Lets say a man's profession doesn't make alot of money but he can live comfortably and enjoys what he does should he find another career just to keep up with his woman??!! No, as a couple they should know that they both contribute equally into the household be in money or house work. In previuos generations did the man think less of his wife becasue she stayed at home and raised their children..NO! He was thankful he had a patient loving partner..one who cooked, cleaned and did most the child rearing. when he woke up he wasn't thinking about what she didn't do, he was thinking how lucky he was to have a clean starched shirt to wear, to ahve intelligent well behaved children, and to come home to a clean enviroment. By asking is it okay we are still holding our women to aving to ask for permission..that is wrong, being a man is more than just bringing home money just a s being a father is more than making a child...Woman have been in the workforce long before my generation and will continue to excel at their professions. I will continue to be my lady's biggest cheerleader as I would want her to be mine. By this I am not excusing those male's out there whom don't step up their responsibilities. STEP UP! BE about don't TALK about it!!!!!!
Tuesday, September 4th 2007 at 11:25AM |
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To be perfectly honest, only a real man can deal with a woman who makes more money than him. A "real" man will not feel threatened in his own home if his other half makes more money. He will still handle his business as a man, and be secure in his role as head of the household. A "real" man provides support mentally, emotionally, and spiritually, if she makes more money than you, she doesn't need your money, but she needs your support
Tuesday, September 4th 2007 at 8:14PM |
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Sometimes, if both are prepared to handle the responsibilities of that arrangement, ego included. Yes, relationships can thrive where the woman is the breadwinner, but it has been my experience that issues of power always arise - either the husband feels that he is a poor provider or the wife feels that her contribution gives her more authority in the relationship. Even if it's not a conscious bias, it usually surfaces in unconscious ways (making decisions in the home, etc.) Personally, I don't criticize or discourage any woman from being her best in her career, but I prefer to provide for my family. Not to keep a woman subservient, but rather because of the pride and responsibility of taking care of my family. Friday, September 7th 2007 at 3:50PM |
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