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Grief is the greatest Lesson

Grief is the greatest Lesson
Posted By: Carla Hannibal on August 04, 2008



I choose to remember my son "Scooter" 16 years old and filled life,with love and not sorrowful grief. I choose to honor the 'presence' of hisLove instead of grieving his absence. I choose to celebrate, with humble, loving gratitude, the gift of our time spent together rather than mourn the loss of it.



By accepting his passing, I have become whole! Grief has taught me that my life, now, has a different meaning, new depths and new horizons. To me, grief is the greatest lesson of all in how to CELEBRATE life. My interpretation of grief defined my reaction to grief.
I chose to make it my friend and teacher. Recovering from grief was only as difficult and as painful as I chose to make it. For strength, courage and support, I keep these words of Maya Angelou close in my heart: "I can be changed by what has happened to me but I refuse to be reduced by it!"

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