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Damn....

Damn....
Posted By: Jarin Penn on June 01, 2005


You know that time in ur life when u have 2 let go of some1? I experienced that 2day....and what blows me about the situation is, I truly dont want 2...she doesnt want 2...but b4 I got in the picture, she was in 1 of those off again, on again relationships....the dude now whats to start back up...he loves her, and she loves him....its easy 2 see....but our relationship never really got chance to develop...so now I'm stuck....I love shawtay 4real....that deep s*** 2....so I want whats best 4 her....but what do I do when the best thing 4 her....might not be me?.....damn....

I'm out...
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Caramel Velle
Tuskegee University class of 2006
Sorry homie, that's just the way the game of love plays. I don't understand nor like the rules myself. I been there so I feel ya pain. Stay up who knows what the future may hold for ya! Maybe even her. Lata playa! Hope this helps!
Thursday, June 2nd 2005 at 1:10AM
Jamar Simmons
Johnson C. Smith University class of 2009
I was in the same situation, me and shawtie gurl was kicking hard on some soulmate type stuff. But she still had a fling with her boyfriend. We grew apart with our feelings remaining the same...that was painful. It basically one of those nails you have to bite.

I wish I could tell you how to avoid the pain. You just gotta play it by ear and feeling...hopefully something will roll your way. Good luck,
Thursday, June 2nd 2005 at 1:27AM
Krystal Taylor
Hinds Community College class of 2009
I am going to be honest with you.....letting her go may seem hard but it was best. If she and this guy were on and off then it was bound to happen. It was better for you that it happened sooner than after you developed REAL DEEP feelings for her. Letting go may be hard but it was for the better.
Thursday, June 2nd 2005 at 1:46PM
Nicole Jau
North Carolina Central University class of 2009
Man. . . .I've been there before. . . but I wouldn't give my X another chance because he wasn't worthy of it. . . I LOVE YOU are strong words to say to someone. . . If she love you like the way you love her then things wouldn't be like they are now. . . I know you can't stop loving her, but you gotta know when to move on to bigger and better things. . .You'll get there, just hold your head up aight. . . .
~Nicole. . . .NCCU BOUND
Tuesday, June 7th 2005 at 9:51AM
Mya Williams
Virginia Union University class of 2004
The best thing was you.....So, I say her lost another woman's gain sweetie. Hould your head high and go find you a real woman worthy of your Love. Keep the faith.
Friday, June 10th 2005 at 11:57AM
Darrell Anderson
Savannah State University class of 2009
JJ...we gotta talk...ASAP!!!
Friday, July 1st 2005 at 12:47AM
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