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Relationships... To Stay or to Go?

Relationships... To Stay or to Go?
Posted By: Dwayne Dunham Jr. on June 17, 2005


what's up HBCU? it's been a while since i put something up... i guess i just wanna say that if you're in a relationship, big ups to you... if you're not, there's someone out there for you, if you're in a relationship that sees more downs than ups, do something about it, i guess i have sat back here and haven't done much of anything about mine... i have thought many times about ending my relationship, but i am not good at breakin hearts... i consider people's feelings before i do things...



me and my girl have our good times, and things are great, but it's the little things beneath the surface that just strains the relationship a great deal... a lot of arguments we have are over the dumbest and stupidest things... and we handle things way too differently... i'm more for civility, and i'm as not as confrontational as she is... hell i avoid arguments at all cost.. i'm not trying to change her ways, but i just want her to see that there's a different way of going about things... but it seems as though it'll never happen...

The best thing for me to do now is to just pray to God about everything... in time i hope i know what i have to do...

well, get at ya later HBCU...

D
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Whitney Graves
Florida A&M University class of 2008
I agree. A relationship can be a very stressful thing, but if you're in love, it's worth a try. A relationship is all about give and take. Meet her halfway and let her know how you feel and vice versa. Communication is one of the most important things that make-up a relationship. Pray and let nature take its course.
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