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WHY DO GOOD GIRLS GO BAD?!?!?!?

WHY DO GOOD GIRLS GO BAD?!?!?!?
Posted By: on June 22, 2005


Ok right. . .Can somebody tell me y dudes always do good girls wrong? I mean come on, you got a girl thats holdin u down to the fullest. Not cheating, lying, or using you. Buys things for you, goes out her way, for you, just wants to make you happy, but you play her and do her wrong.



Then when she tries and leaves you beg her to stay cuz YOU SAY you'll change but you neva do and continue to break her down and keep her to your own convinience. WHY IS THAT?! I just want to know beacause it's happend to me ONCE to many times and I'm not for it. It's dudes like that, that make a female use them for $$$$$.

"They say you can't turn a bad girl good, but once a good girl's gone bad, she's gone forever. . .Now I gotta live w/ the fact I did you wrong forever."~ Jay Z, Song Cry
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Jimmie Lee Gibson Jr.
Norfolk State University class of 2006
Well.....I know it's gonna sound cliche, but dudes do it for the same reason girls do. It's not always the guy out there doing wrong and messing over the good girls.....females do it guys as well and give them the "why bother" attitude. Not to say that it's right in either case because we could sit around going back and forth over who did what to whom first for years and not get anywhere. Let's just say that it's a selfish attitude from both the guys and girls who do it that needs to stop. I mean, do unto others, right......
Wednesday, June 22nd 2005 at 8:39AM
Frederick Yeakey
Kentucky State University class of 2006
I think sometimes guys can sometimes become greedy... We know that we have a good girl, but we also can become addicted to the thrill of cheating. We know it's wrong, but sometimes our past experiences with a female may be bad, and that puts us in a mind-set of never putting all of your eggs in one basket..... Is it right? No!!! Is it justifyable? Maybe.
Wednesday, June 22nd 2005 at 9:09AM
Darryl D. Smith
Grambling State University class of 2007
I ask the same question both ways. Why do dudes do girls wrong and why do girls do dudes wrong? I don't understand it. Maybe it's because we are more mature than they are. Or maybe it's becasue they are weaker to temptation. I wish it would stop though. I hate being done wrong by girls...
Wednesday, June 22nd 2005 at 11:11AM
Yo, u right. I give it to you on dis one. I feel that most of the time the good girl likes the playa, or cheater, that's why good girls go bad. They don't want the friend in the library. They want the person everbody wants, who usually wants everybody too. There are to many diseases to put myself at risk so I stick to what I know.
Wednesday, June 22nd 2005 at 11:41AM
Mitchell Tarver
Howard University class of 2010
I think you should just have good friends but not much more if you really want it to be right. Most people, male or female, do not go to college to fall in love, they go to get degrees. Most dudes are not trying to fall in love with anyone or get "tied down" at an early age. Never give anyone the power to have such an effect on you. You should not let your feelings for someone get so strong that you are no longer in control of them...If so, you should back off for a while and find soneone else later...
Wednesday, June 22nd 2005 at 1:25PM
LaShonda Redd
Tuskegee University class of 2009
i feel you on this too because at this moment i watch my cousin do this same thing to my former friend. I mean this girl use to be like my sister and my cousin just truely turned her out. I mean she use to do good in school and all that stuff and now she graduated with a 2. something and she aint even thinking about college at all. My cousin wont even let her chill with her friends. Anyways i think guys do it because we present them with the oppurtunity. IM not blaming us but really if we give men everything they want they get lazy and take advantage of it. The same with guys in the same situation. Guys want to keep their bad girls and give them everything they want and then the girls get use to it and they take advantage of it. U cant give a person so much for so long and then just cut them off. Its like crack u can't give a crack head a whole bunch of crack and then expect them to be able to quit in one day. U have to ween them off it or give them a little at a time. lol In other words try not to spoil your lover, friend, boyfriend, or girlfriend, whatever you want to call them because they'll take advantage of it. A relationship is a mutral thing and nothing else each person plays a part. If you spoil them sooner or later your bound to get hurt.
Wednesday, June 22nd 2005 at 2:00PM
Veronica J. Jones
Alabama A&M University class of 2009
I can't say that I understand how you feel but I can say that I understand your situation because I had it to happen to me but not to that point. I think that it goes for anybody, male and female. But thats real.
Thursday, June 23rd 2005 at 6:10PM
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