Man I been readin some of this shyt. Why the fukk ya be so damn bitter that we hang around our boys? Hell most of the time our boys were in the picture long before you were and hell they gonna be there after you leave. GET THE FUKK OVER IT......
We dont get mad when you go hang out wit ya girlz
i could care less...as long as he doesnt forget that hes NOT single even if the rest of his boys are without girls and as long as he give me a little bit of his time.....some guys forget that once they get a girl that they do have to cut back on some things and kickin it with your boys is one of em.....if ur still spendin more time with your boys than with your girlfriend....maybe u shouldnt be in a relationship.
Mayne, i could careless. My girls have been there for me thru pure heartache. That's more than i can say for any dude. They've seen me at my worst & constantly push me to be my best. Get in a argument with a dude and he's ready to walk out the picture, but i can fight with my girls one minute and we'll be laughin the next. That's a bond right there.
So i would expect any dude that i was to get with to have that same kinship with his friends. I'm not gonna hate on that. All i can say to him is..."do ya thing." I have a life, so it isn't that serious. He just betta not get mad when he doesn't see me. That's all i got to say :arrow:
Personally speaking I dont get mad when my bf hangs out with his boys cause I want him to have fun and space is a good thing and don't let this get one-sided cause some guys do trip hard when it comes to their girl hanging out with her friends too much. And for some people its true that their friends have been in the picture long before a significant other but that doesnt mean they will be there forever or that you bf/gf will either unless yall have that connection and know through it all yall will be by each others side and when u experience that u dont talk or trip about your bf/gf going out with their friends cause its no big deal in the first place. And remember friends come and go out of your life and i know u have dealt with that at one time or another...that your boy now wont be ya boy tomorrow - that's all i have to say.... keep da Peace and much love!
Man I been readin some of this shyt. Why the fukk ya be so damn bitter that we hang around our boys? Hell most of the time our boys were in the picture long before you were and hell they gonna be there after you leave. GET THE FUKK OVER IT......
We dont get mad when you go hang out wit ya girlz
Where did this come from Rod? Did u and some girl just get into it about it or what?
I don't think it's an issue of ya'll hangin with ya boyz, cuz like you said, they were around before the girlfriend and SHOULD be there after ole girl is gone...BUT I think the problem arises when you spend ALL of your damn time with ya boyz like ya'll are married or something. If you know you don't want to, or can't contribute the time or at least EFFORT to the relationship with your lady to actually make her feel like she's a part of your life, then YO' **** should NOT get a girlfriend. Think of it this way...how are ya'll supposed to grow together as a couple if you never spend any time together?
On the flip side, I know some of us ladies are a little TOO needy and act like our boyfriends are the only friends we have. My hope is that you realize ole girl is like this while ya'll are in the talkin process and maybe avoid a serious relationship with her altogether.
ok, that comment about "we dun be trippin when u chill with yo gurls" is NOT always true. Because I've dealt w/ **** that be like "ugh, why u always with them? they get on my nerves." or "everytime we go sumwhere u gotta call one of them" or "why do u even hang out with them, they aren't yo real friends...u need to drop em."
That is a fact cuz i know other ladies have heard this b4, and my current bf says it now.
So, fellas, I would like to ask y'all the same question: How come y'all never like when females be chillin wit our girls??
Man I been readin some of this shyt. Why the fukk ya be so damn bitter that we hang around our boys? Hell most of the time our boys were in the picture long before you were and hell they gonna be there after you leave. GET THE FUKK OVER IT......
We dont get mad when you go hang out wit ya girlz
Where did this come from Rod? Did u and some girl just get into it about it or what?
i dunno where it came from, but he got a very valid point... y'all assume the worse out of us :roll:
i could care less...as long as he doesnt forget that hes NOT single even if the rest of his boys are without girls and as long as he give me a little bit of his time.....some guys forget that once they get a girl that they do have to cut back on some things and kickin it with your boys is one of em.....if ur still spendin more time with your boys than with your girlfriend....maybe u shouldnt be in a relationship.
