Because everyone's too defensive. There's so much game and BS out there that rather than take a chance, nobody bothers. So everyone is just about getting theirs, and those who aren't look elsewhere. Holla!
yea im looking for a relationship. since i got into college i have been looking for a quality lady. sometimes it looks like girls dont want to settle down. thats why i take it as i get it, if im just gonna hit then fine if im gonna settle down then fine. im just in a spot where i dont want to let the perfect woman get by me,
^^^that's the outlook to have momma :wink: . Problem with most chicks is that they think about it too much and trivialize sumthin that is supposed to be so simple. We're told growing up that "college is where ya find your husband". Ummmm...no, that is not promised to anyone. Just do you hun, and don't worry yourself over dudes, their desires, and where they fit in your life. First & foremost, you are in college to receive an education. Work on preserving, nurturing, and bettering yourself for your future. If a nice guy sneaks into the picture somewhere along the way...then just look at as a blessing. :wink:
yea im looking for a relationship. since i got into college i have been looking for a quality lady. sometimes it looks like girls dont want to settle down. thats why i take it as i get it, if im just gonna hit then fine if im gonna settle down then fine. im just in a spot where i dont want to let the perfect woman get by me,
cosigns... i was like that... but i finally got my lady, so i'm straight now
^^^that's the outlook to have momma :wink: . Problem with most chicks is that they think about it too much and trivialize sumthin that is supposed to be so simple. We're told growing up that "college is where ya find your husband". Ummmm...no, that is not promised to anyone. Just do you hun, and don't worry yourself over dudes, their desires, and where they fit in your life. First & foremost, you are in college to receive an education. Work on preserving, nurturing, and bettering yourself for your future. If a nice guy sneaks into the picture somewhere along the way...then just look at as a blessing. :wink:
