Hotep,
I can say I do that to Females when "They"run out of things to talk about.
You see what I have learn is not to give out all my business the first time I talke to someone.
I have noticed that most girls tell their life story over the Phone and it runs many Men esp Black Men away.
I think that if you guys are still speaking and he's not calling.
I would say He's weighting his options. To him it may be to early in the game to decide on one female.
Prince...Let him SHOP
I don't wanna tell you that he ain't interested, but I don't think you're the only one tryin to get at him. He might just be tryin to do his thing, and doesn't want to tell you that he ain't lookin for anything long term.
Honestly, you might need to stop sweatin the situation and start lookin at some more guys, cause ya boy doesn't sound like a definite.
I don't wanna tell you that he ain't interested, but I don't think you're the only one tryin to get at him. He might just be tryin to do his thing, and doesn't want to tell you that he ain't lookin for anything long term.
Honestly, you might need to stop sweatin the situation and start lookin at some more guys, cause ya boy doesn't sound like a definite.
True and also he may feel like its too much too fast for him and the only way he can put some distance in between yall is to not talk to you but thel only real way to find out is to ask him, stay positive, stay safe, keep ya head up and keep it real -1LUV
And remember for this moment in your life this guy is the a major part but never put yourself before a man.....live your life for yourself and if the right on comes along then it will a partnership
His reasoning is right there in the ratio of girls to guys. I don't mean to degrade you, but he's probably looking for the best trophy girl(s) to put on his arm. I suggest you move on. Y'all can keep talking, but I think that theres a good chance that y'all might not be together this year
yea i aint sweating him to his knowledge, i dont even call him anymore but im just confused as to why we hit it off so well and then it just came to a stand still. we didnt tell our life stories or nothing but we did agree we had a lot in common and talked about going out, i didnt think i was being too pushy cuz i didnt talk about havin a relationship or nothing but i dunno, thanks for the advice so far.
Well in that case......someone else might be occupying his time. Maybe it isn't that he doesn't like you.......he just doesn't like you enough. But yeah........fish........sea........you know the phrase.
Ya'll **** bein' too nice to her.
You answered yer own question.
*He's an athlete
*The school is mostly girls
He's the creme of the crop, he's tryin' to get himself a Top-Tier Stunna. Why? Because he can, he knows that because there is a supposed shortage of men at the school he's gonna be the thing that all the girls are chasing after. So naturally he's gonna be picky and choosey about who he gets with.
Don't get mad, don't blame him, blame nature and the law of averages. He's the last drop of water in a desert filled with women, unless you lookin' like Beyonce, you better have some type of advantage up ya sleeve.
Ya'll **** bein' too nice to her.
You answered yer own question.
*He's an athlete
*The school is mostly girls
He's the creme of the crop, he's tryin' to get himself a Top-Tier Stunna. Why? Because he can, he knows that because there is a supposed shortage of men at the school he's gonna be the thing that all the girls are chasing after. So naturally he's gonna be picky and choosey about who he gets with.
Don't get mad, don't blame him, blame nature and the law of averages. He's the last drop of water in a desert filled with women, unless you lookin' like Beyonce, you better have some type of advantage up ya sleeve.
thats blunt, i can understand that point but im not worried about me not lookin good enough cuz there are too many ducks here, just cuz i said we are overpopulatd wit girls dont mean there is a massive amount of competiton,im confident of that fact not even being true. im tight and im not questioning that one bit, but like i said thats your two cents i think you were tryin to dog me out on the post but its cool, thanks anyway
