I'm trying to figure this ****out, becuase me and my ex-boyfreind are going through some SHYT. Letme pop game to ya.
Now lets say you have found that one girl that takes care of you, anything you needed she got you, she's always there when you need her, you love her, family loves her too...you know...
Okay, so you're not ready for a relationship with her because, you don't know if you can competly turn away any temptation that comes you way. You wanna be free to see other people. Understandable. But because of the relationship you two have, you know she is always going to be there...so that when you are ready...you can pick up where you left off... :roll: ha...assumptions...
Anyways... how do you make a person not take you for granted. How do you do this in a way that they know you will always be there for them...but not always be HERE for them..? Do I make any sense? Yeah...he's probably right with the I'll always be here...but I don't want him to KNOW that. I want to become challange again...
Am I making good sense?
Girl u make a whole lota sense. dont let him know u will always be there even though u will be. also u cant do all the little things you use to do when you guys were together he lsot those priveliges when he chose to play the field. let him know you will be there for all the major things, but that things have changed and you cant act like a girlfriend any more.
i hope that makes sense
There is definitely a way to have him not take you for granted. Like Sapphire said, don't let him know that you will always be there. The fact that he does know that if anything else with these other females fails, then he can always be safe and come back to you. There is not a problem with that....I mean you want him to come back to you right? But just don't let it become a habit...do you know what I mean? And shoot, two can play that game.
There is definitely a way to have him not take you for granted. Like Sapphire said, don't let him know that you will always be there. The fact that he does know that if anything else with these other females fails, then he can always be safe and come back to you. There is not a problem with that....I mean you want him to come back to you right? But just don't let it become a habit...do you know what I mean? And shoot, two can play that game.
yeah, i gotta concur....................
spoiled **** men.....................
Become unavailable:
-return every other call (unless it's an emergency)
-go out with other fellas
-deny him the goodies (to keep your sanity and make him lose his)
Become unavailable:
-return every other call (unless it's an emergency)
-go out with other fellas
-deny him the goodies (to keep your sanity and make him lose his)
don't let him taste the goodies
let him feen about it
he'll get all hot and bothered
if u talk about it
just let him choke the chicken........................
Yeah. He considers us "best friends" or something
perverted like that. So we talk all the time...
I dunno call me the weirdo for this thought, but I honestly dont think that its the best idea for you two to be " Best Friends" right now considering the circumstances. I mean u two can be cool, but there is still to much emotional wind flyin around. From what I read previously he broke up with u cause he wanted to test the waters....now he wants to be great friends. :? I dunno it seems to me like he is kinda usin u for that ol pack of ramen noodles that u have just in case u run out of food and get real hungry....It may seem blunt but trust me because i have been there before.
I have more to say but I will stop there for now
Become unavailable:
-return every other call (unless it's an emergency)
-go out with other fellas
-deny him the goodies (to keep your sanity and make him lose his)
don't let him taste the goodies
let him feen about it
he'll get all hot and bothered
if u talk about it
just let him choke the chicken........................
i fully agree..they hit it right on the nail...i just couldn't think of a way to put it
